Virgo in Love
Venus in Virgo
This position of Venus is much maligned because it causes you to be
suspicious of the love nature that the world has idolized to their
detriment.
This position of Venus points to the
true nature of love. Since the world or humanity at large is still very
unwilling to recognize true love, these people must use this influence
to protect themselves from falling into the traps the rest of the world
says would be their salvation.
Therefore, you with this position
present a very distorted picture of what you would prefer to be
expressing. You are unable to buy an advertised love which says don’t
think just feel. You are continually pointing out what is wrong with
those you love. They would prefer for you to love them for their
unevolved selves alone. Who gets the blame? You do.
This vicious circle is indeed difficult
to break out of. If no one will accept the best that you have to offer
you will oblige them by giving them a very inadequate facsimile of what
they are asking for.
Many of you just never marry or ever
find anyone you can be happy with. It is my belief that all this is
changing. When excessive sex-obsessed-with-technique runs its course and
humanity as a whole begins to talk about the closeness of a
relationship, understanding, real caring, affection being located in the
bowels, you will have your day.
“Falling in love” is indeed dangerous.
You have sense enough to realize that. When the world has truly learned
to accept that fact the evaluation of Virgo will emerge from the fog in a
truly beneficial way. This position of Venus is in the forefront of
that threshold.
Venus in Virgo is at fall here because
these individuals are very prude and shy, and may mix between the
concept of cleanliness and sexuality, perceiving the latter as dirty,
and messy.
They will express their love by being
very useful around the house and doing very subtle forms of service, so
if you have a lover with such placement, keep your eyes open for such sublimity and be appreciative.T o Venus in Virgo, it’s the useful little
things that matter. Encouragement and appreciation may help in making
them less shy. Also you may want to take it extra easy on the intimacy
with them, and be understanding. Once they are comfortable, you will be
surprised. If you have Venus in Virgo you will also show artistic craftsmanship such as jewellery design, sculpting/carving, etc.
Venus in Virgo - Venus in Virgo is a modest, shy lover. They express love by being helpful, serving you, and criticizing you. While they are humble, they are also conscientious.
They feel it absolutely necessary to call out your mistakes when they
catch them. This will happen often since they have an extremely high
attention for detail. Venus in Virgo is endowed with exceptional analytical skills. But remember, that is how they show that they love you. If they stop criticizing, they have stopped caring. Self-improvement is the goal for Venus in Virgo. They strive to be perfect in every area of their life, but particularly in the areas of health, diet, and work ethics.
When one loves you, they add you to their self-improvement check-list.
Virgo is one of the most helpful signs in the zodiac. Your Virgo lover
will not simply tell you that you need to do more cardio exercise; they
will wake up at 5am to jog with you every morning. They will not just
tell you that your home is a mess; they will clean it for you.
For a Virgo, serving others actually provides them
emotional satisfaction. They do it because it makes them feel good. In
bed with a Virgo lover, prepare to be analyzed and pleased from head to
toe. They will take their time exploring every nook and cranny on your
body until they find your “spot.” This is a thorough
lover. Most problems with a Virgo lover can be worked out if you talk
with them since they are always up for self-improvement. Venus in Virgo
can suffer through a long, lonely time without a partner simply because
they find too many flaws with each prospect. Some Virgos are seriously
waiting for a perfect person. Virgo is a mutable sign, and it’s
difficult to pin them down. They don’t begin relationships with just
anybody. If a Venus in Virgo loves you, either you have perfect
qualities that they admire, or you are so screwed up that it has become
their mission to fix you. Some celebrities with Venus in Virgo include
John Lennon, Jennifer Lopez, Kevin Spacey, Julia Roberts and Robert de
Niro.
How to Love Venus in Virgo ?
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To make your Virgo lover feel loved, make them feel
useful to you. They need to feel useful to feel good about themselves.
Pleasing Venus in Virgo involves showing you appreciate them for all the
little things they do -- and they do a lot. Let
them help you with everything, whether its homework, housework, running
errands, etc. Appreciate their self-improvement plan for your life. But
more than appreciation, they want to see tangible results that their
advice is working on you. They will feel loved if you’re all excited
about their advice. Go vegetarian, go vegan, cut out caffeine, sign up
for a fitness class, do whatever they advise you to do. Let your Virgo
lover know that they are already as close to perfect as a human can be.
Accept their criticism they way you would accept it from a grandparent,
knowing that they love you and mean it for your own good. Don’t be
harsh with them; they will back down and you may lose them. Be kind and
try to be as perfect as possible. Your Virgo lover will only be
comfortable with you if you are logical, practical, and super clean.
Make your decisions using logic. For fun, play analytical puzzle games.
They love exercising their minds by analyzing things. Don’t eat meals in
your car, do carry around sanitizer, keep your kitchen spotless, always
wear a bib, that kind of thing. Whatever you do, don’t take advantage
of these helpful, serving souls. You will be rewarded with a
near-perfect lover who is also a mentor and a best friend for life.
Female: The Venus in
Virgo lady always looks smart, and as near perfect as one can be. She is
quite sensitive in love, even insecure - and this reserved, loner-like
quality is part of her appeal. She prefer to play it safe in her
relationships, and she need to be confident that you like her before she
make a move. Venus in Virgo woman is often extremely romantic, and
yearns for perfection in the one she loves. Women with this Venus
placement in their birth charts pride themselves on being neat,
well-organized, efficient and dependable. Being able to take care of the
many details of life makes you feel good about yourself as a woman.
Male: The Venus in Virgo
male is turned on by clean, hygienic, nerdy women. He prefers modest,
humble, nice girls, but he can also get turned on by a bad girl in a
“school girl” outfit with glasses. Men with Venus in Virgo are most
attracted to women who are unassuming, unpretentious, even a little shy.
Neatness is more important to you than beauty in a partner, and you're
turned off instantly by unkempt hair and dirty fingernails. Your ideal
partner is conscientious, dependable, intelligent, modest and practical
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