The Influence Of Venus In Love Relationships

The Venus sign determines a person’s love nature as well as how he or she attracts a partner. In a man’s chart, the placement of Venus determines the type of woman he is attracted to. In a woman’s chart, Venus determines her view of femininity, as well as how she expresses her feminine qualities. Venus represents love, sensuality, romance, beauty, affection and social appeal. Its placement in your natal chart provides insight into what you are attracted to in a partner as well as what type of person is attracted to you. Use the following guide to determine your love nature and find out how to attract a man based on his Venus sign characteristics.

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Aries
The Venus in Aries individual attracts love by being confident, spontaneous and bold. Both males and females of this Venus sign enjoy the chase involved during courtship and become even more persistent when the object of his or her affection plays hard to get. The person who has Venus in Aries enjoys making the first move in a love relationship. Mars, the ruling planet of Aries, rules beginnings so this person is particularly exciting during the beginning stages of a relationship; he or she has a lot of passion and loves adventure. The relationship must remain exciting and challenging, however, in order to keep the Venus in Aries person’s interest.

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Venus in Scorpio

Scorpio in Love

Venus in Scorpio:

Venus in Scorpio is do or die. I’ve seen both saints and harlots with this placement, and seen the same person transform from one to the other. Because it is the all or nothing. People with Venus in scorpio may stay single for years looking for the perfect one, and then give them their pure devotion and loyality.

On the other hand, they may use the secretive Scorpio energy to lurk in very murky waters of prostitution and its many cousins, maintaining a surprisingly clean and innocent facade.

In both cases, this is a very possessive placement and takes no BS, once it smells betrayal or a subtle hurtful comment, it will never forget and hell will break loose. But at the same time, its very sexual and alluring with great magnetic charm. Many dark artists and religious fanatics have this placement! May also have a twisted and even kinky taste, often with a preference to things that are taboo.

This position of Venus is difficult at best. It is perhaps least hazardous when it accompanies a Scorpio or Eighth House Sun, although there are also difficulties with this position.

If the Sun is also in Scorpio you have more self direction and control with this position of Venus. You are also dependent on a strong measure of self-control. It is up to you to set your own standards, for better or for worse. Partnerships become more difficult.

If your Sun is in one of the other possible signs (Virgo, the Sixth House; Libra, the Seventh House; Sagittarius, the Ninth House; Capricorn, the Tenth House) you will find it extremely difficult to control and express your desires, passions and affections in a way that brings you satisfaction and respect. Libra is particularly vulnerable with its ruler in Scorpio. Scorpio is the sign of transformation. Venus’ attractive power is oriented toward possession, hanging on to and owning what you possess, even people.

This is the irresistible force meeting the immovable object. Something has to give. Life itself depends on meeting this challenge. Venus holds it’s greatest sway over the opposite sign Taurus. In Scorpio, it must bend adapt and adjust it’s nature to transcend the methods which have brought it this far. There must be a purpose to the accumulation of wealth and power. This is the real test of value. A selfish purpose means death to the individual. Proper distribution is the challenge. Here it becomes a life and death matter to know where to let go to proper advantage. Some people will do this very well. Others will destroy not only others but themselves rather than live and let live.

Venus in Scorpio is probably the most emotionally intense and passionate sign of the Zodiac. It is also the most mysterious and its power is most obvious in the night time. In love, Venus in Scorpio like to have long term relationships and have difficulty coping with breakups because they get so deeply involved. Those born with their Venus in Scorpio will be intensely romantic, direct and determined. Their strong feelings can sometimes cross the line into jealousy and possessiveness. They are sexually magnetic in a very physical way. Their intensity and passion combine with dedication and dominance to create a person who requires their partner to put it all on the line as they will. If they turn their attention towards a potential mate, all of their physical, mental and emotional energies will be placed behind that task.

Venus in Scorpio loves mystery and knows that there's a purpose for his strong sexual magnetism. Venus in Scorpio need to feel empowered can manifest in manipulation and controlling behaviour and his hearty sexual appetite can degenerate into promiscuity and sex addiction. This people needs a mate who appreciates and encourages his passion and intensity. The best insurance against the shadow side is a Venus-in-Scorpio who is secure and proud of his special gifts: magnetism, mystical sense of magic, ability to feel deeply and his acute sensitivity to others. Very sexually-oriented, Venus in Scorpio needs a partner who is as passionate about life -- and all its mysteries -- as he is! Famous Celebrity with Venus in Scorpio: Leonardo DiCaprio, Steven Spielberg, Bill Gates, Demi Moore, Jean-Claude Van Damme, Jodie Foster and Christopher Reeve.

How to Love Venus in Scorpio?

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Pleasing Venus in Scorpio involves demonstrating your complete commitment and loyalty to them. Those with their Venus in Scorpio need a partner that can be partially submissive while standing their ground against further attempts to dominate them. If you can, and they're deserving, relinquish some of the control in the relationship. Let them feel they own you, without taking it to extremes. Remember, though, that some Venus in Scorpio lovers can and will take advantage of you on a subtle level, if only to keep you all to themselves. Let them have their secrets and their silences. It can be a tricky tightrope to walk but can be worth it. Everything the Scorpio does is rooted in deep, almost instinctual emotions that they may be able to mask but they can't subdue. If a partner is able to keep the dark aspects of this personality at bay, the lighter ones will make them feel like the most important person in the universe.

Female: No-one takes love and relationships more seriously than Venus in Scorpio woman do. She is seeking nothing less than complete merger with a partner - body, mind and spirit. Women with Venus in Scorpio project a powerful sensuality and magnetism that can be both enticing and intimidating. There is something mysterious about she that makes her irresistible to many men, even if she is not especially pretty. Extremely emotional, she realize how strong her feelings are and how deeply she can be hurt if a love affair doesn't work out; therefore, she is sceptical and cautious about getting involved. Once she commit herself in love, however, she do so totally and permanently.

Male: Venus in Scorpio man has a capacity to love deeply, though his intense feelings may be difficult to express. At times, his love can lead him into painful emotional crises. With Venus in Scorpio, there will be a tendency to go to extremes in love relationships. In many ways, he thrive on crisis, as he need the intensity it brings. What he cannot stand is bland nothingness. Men with this planetary position are most interested in women who are dark, intense, mysterious and obviously sexual, the kind you wouldn't think of taking home to meet your mother. Love is always sexual for him, and he can take his partners to some deep and dark places in their search for the depth of union he crave.

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