Erotic Venus Signs : How Erotic is your VENUS SIGN?

The Influence Of Venus In Love Relationships

The Venus sign determines a person’s love nature as well as how he or she attracts a partner. In a man’s chart, the placement of Venus determines the type of woman he is attracted to. In a woman’s chart, Venus determines her view of femininity, as well as how she expresses her feminine qualities. Venus represents love, sensuality, romance, beauty, affection and social appeal. Its placement in your natal chart provides insight into what you are attracted to in a partner as well as what type of person is attracted to you. Use the following guide to determine your love nature and find out how to attract a man based on his Venus sign characteristics.

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Aries
The Venus in Aries individual attracts love by being confident, spontaneous and bold. Both males and females of this Venus sign enjoy the chase involved during courtship and become even more persistent when the object of his or her affection plays hard to get. The person who has Venus in Aries enjoys making the first move in a love relationship. Mars, the ruling planet of Aries, rules beginnings so this person is particularly exciting during the beginning stages of a relationship; he or she has a lot of passion and loves adventure. The relationship must remain exciting and challenging, however, in order to keep the Venus in Aries person’s interest.

The man who has Venus in Aries is attracted to women who are assertive, feisty and free-spirited. His ideal woman is energetic and independent. He needs a woman who has her own interests and is not too dependent on him.

The Venus in Aries male finds women who play hard to get extremely appealing. On the other hand, he is also turned on by women who are aggressive and may find it enjoyable to be chased or seduced by an assertive woman. This man admires strength and courage and wants a woman who is bold and spontaneous. A competitive spirit is also a turn on for the man who has Venus in Aries and he may enjoy playing sports with the object of his affection or engaging in other competitive activities.

This Venus loves the chase -- both chasing and being chased. She wants to be first, and wants the first love feeling to last forever. It’s usually not a sustainable dynamic, but it’s spicy while it lasts. Venus is in her detriment in Aries, so at times this lover can be too hot to handle. Your karmic lesson is learning how to keep your romantic fire going so it doesn’t burn out… or burn the place down.

I’ve started fondly calling this the “diva placement”, because it’s home to Rihanna and a host of other incredible women. Honor your Venus in Aries with passionate movement. Dance until you can’t anymore. Make love until you can’t anymore. Red is your lucky color, partially because it helps you stand out and be noticed. The bolder you are, the better off you’ll be.

Other notable Venus in Aries people include leading ladies Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, and Audrey Hepburn.

Taurus
Venus rules Taurus, so the planet is in its domain in this sign. The characteristics of Venus are especially strong in this sign and are expressed easily and naturally. The Venus in Taurus person is easy-going and sensual. Both the male and female of this Venus sign tend to have an erotic, non-threatening sex appeal. The perceptive person is able to sense the intense sexuality hidden just below the surface of this person’s sweet exterior and is usually pleasantly surprised by the intensity of his or her expression.

The Venus in Taurus person has a love of indulgence and may enjoy good food, drink and back rubs more than the average person. He or she expresses love by being affectionate and reliable. The Venus in Taurus individual is particularly appealing to someone who is looking for stability and security in a relationship because he or she will settle for nothing less. The love nature of the Venus in Taurus individual is uncomplicated; they are sincere and direct about their desires. He or she is also very relaxed and laid-back, preferring not to be rushed.

The man who has Venus in Taurus tends to be attracted to women who are sweet, feminine and affectionate. This man wants a real woman – voluptuous curves, tantalizing perfume, and all. He likes women who are calm and easy-going. A woman who is sensual and demonstrative is also particularly attractive to this type of man. The Venus in Taurus male does not want a woman who is too energetic or independent and prefers a woman he can relax with. He also tends to be attracted to women who have a pleasant, melodic and soothing voice. He needs a woman who can cater to all of his sensual needs and he is always prepared to return the favor.

Venus in dominant in Taurus, so we see her truest qualities shine through here. Imagine Aphrodite herself lounging on a luxe couch, utterly relaxed, enjoying good food, good wine, and good company. This Venus in Taurus is a sensual creature who knows how to experience her lover with all five senses. She appreciates the indulgence of a day in bed with nothing else to do but the person you’re with.

Venus in Taurus can be a very vocal lover, as Taurus rules the throat. Kiss them on the neck, let them speak sweet (or dirty) nothings to you, and know that communication is deeply important to them. Some Taurean Venus people have beautiful singing voices, like Ariana Grande. If you’re lucky, maybe they’ll serenade you to sleep.

Other notable Venus in Taurus people include Lana Del Rey, the reigning queen of languid chic.

Gemini
The Venus in Gemini individual attracts love by being witty and charming. This person loves to flirt and mental attraction is much more important than physical attraction for the Venus in Gemini individual. This person can be fickle and finds it difficult to make up his or her mind about a potential partner. Venus in Gemini individuals become quite chatty when they are attracted to someone and may find themselves talking more than usual. They also enjoy writing love notes, poems and letters to the object of their affection. Communication plays a big part in any relationship with the Venus in Gemini person.

The Venus in Gemini male is attracted to women who are intelligent and clever. He must connect with a woman on a mental level before physical desire takes place.

The Venus in Gemini male truly enjoys the flirtation and mind games that take place during the courtship stage of a relationship. He also tends to be attracted to average-looking women who are witty and interesting, rather than gorgeous females who have nothing to talk about. A woman who can keep him guessing is particularly attractive. His biggest fear is boredom, so he tends to also find complex women a turn on. Interesting conversation is the best seduction for this man and women who are good talkers or good listeners are quite attractive to him.

This Venus loves mind games. She flirts and flounces her way into her lover’s heart. For her, witty banter is foreplay. She ensnares the object of her affection in what appears at first glance to be an innocent conversation -- most likely about art, politics, or the latest controversy -- then turns the tables just to see what their reaction will be.

Venus in Gemini needs near constant stimuli in order to stay interested in a partner -- consider Frida Kahlo’s romance with Diego Rivera. If there isn’t fluid conversation and an incredible intellectual connection, she won’t be around for long. It’s not that she doesn’t care -- it’s just that she loves learning a whole lot more.

Other notable Venus in Gemini people include Edie Sedgwick, muse to pop artist Andy Warhol. Kylie Minogue has this placement as well -- her turn as La Feé Verte in Moulin Rouge comes to mind.

Cancer
The Venus in Cancer person is extremely protective of loved ones. They tend to be family-oriented and enjoy cooking and cleaning up after their partner. The person who has Venus in Cancer is extremely nurturing towards the loved one and enjoys catering to the partner’s needs. This person wants to make his or her partner feel secure. The person who has Venus in Cancer wants a partner who is sweet, affectionate and attentive.

The Venus in Cancer male prefers a woman who is emotional and family-oriented. The man who has Venus in Cancer wants a woman who will fuss over him and be able to intuit his needs. A woman who is motherly and nurturing is particularly attractive to the Venus in Cancer male. The woman he chooses often reminds him of his mother, to some extent. Old-fashioned, gentle females appeal to this man.

This is Venus in her truest Madonna-Whore guise. In moon-ruled Cancer, the seductive and nurturing aspects of the goddess align for a Venus who is unabashedly aware of her feminine wiles and unafraid to use them. She fully embodies all aspects of her womanhood, from bashful maiden to powerful mother to wise elder, at times within one encounter.Ruled by the Lady Luna, this Venus is also highly intuitive. Stevie Nicks is a shining example of this, channeling her sensitivity through her music and timeless, ethereal style. People with this placement emit an aura of both fragility and strength that waxes and wanes with the moon’s cycles. If you don’t already, I recommend following the phases of the moon and planning any potential trysts by her movements.

Other notable Venus in Cancer people include Angelina Jolie, celebrity matriarch extraordinaire.

Leo
The Venus in Leo individual loves adoration and attention. This person prefers the traditional courtship involving flowers, tons of romance and chivalry. The Venus in Leo individual is generous when in love and enjoys giving gifts. A love affair with the Venus in Leo person can be dramatic, exciting and passionate. The person who has Venus in Leo expects complete devotion and loyalty from his or her partner.

Venus in Leo men are attracted to sophisticated, classy women. He is likely to choose a partner based on good looks or popularity rather than compatibility. He likes women who have a strong personality and a lot of self-respect and may even be attracted to a “bossy” female. The man who has Venus in Leo desires a woman who is passionate and expressive. A woman who is dramatic or regal is also particularly appealing to this man.

Venus in Leo is the femme fatale. Wild and dangerous, on a seductive pursuit she’s like a lioness on a hunt. Many have played actual courtesans (Nicole Kidman) or modern sex symbols (Dita Von Teese and Pamela Anderson), so the bedroom is their stage. There’s a performance aspect to their appeal. They want to be seen, worshipped, and adored as the goddesses that they are.

Venus in Leo cares deeply about their appearance, but make sure that these beauty rituals stay focused on self-love and don’t veer into self-sabotage territory. Keep in mind that Elizabeth Bathory was the paragon of Venus in Leo gone wrong. Self care is healthy, but bathing in the blood of virgins to preserve one’s youth is, obviously, much too far.

Other notable Venus in Leo people include Whitney Houston, another singular talent.
 

Virgo
Venus in Virgo suggests a modest nature. The person who has Venus in Virgo is often naive when it comes to love and they rarely realize when someone is interested in him or her.

This person keeps his or her feelings under tight reign and needs proof of love before expressing his or her feelings. The Venus in Virgo person is extremely attentive to the object of his or her affection and enjoys doing little things to make the partner feel special. He or she also tends to be critical of the loved one. Generally, the more he or she criticizes a partner or tries to change the partner, the more he or she cares.

The male who has Venus in Virgo prefers a woman who is meticulous, well-organized and modest. The Venus in Virgo male is attracted to women who are shy and sweet and somewhat passive. He wants a woman who dresses conservatively and appears proper. Intelligence and good manners are also a turn on for the Venus in Virgo male. A woman who is attentive to his needs is especially appealing.

Ever the sophisticate, Venus in Virgo excels in the art of high-end seduction. That is to say that she never, ever looks or vibes cheap. On the contrary, this Venus embodies the “lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets” mantra to great effect. She has a good girl reputation, so you’d never know just how naughty she’s capable of being. Indeed, Venus in her fall can signify an interest in kink.

This Venus shows affection through complete devotion to her lover. Sometimes this manifests as being “fussy”, but she would say she’s thorough. If you or your lover Venus is in Virgo, learn to compromise on little things and know that you can’t always get what you want. Practice does make perfect, but spontaneity in the bedroom is great too!

Notable Venus in Virgo people include Sophia Loren, Catherine Deneuve, and Brigitte Bardot -- all sex symbols whilst remaining elegant and polished.

Libra
The person who has Venus in Libra enjoys intimacy and likes to spend a lot of alone time with the person he or she desires. Venus in Libra individuals are always interested in what their loved one has to say and tries hard to understand his or her partner. The Venus in Libra person truly knows how to turn on the charm when attempting to attract a prospective partner. Romance is important to the person who has Venus in Libra and he or she tends to enjoy candlelit dinners, flowers and cuddling in front of the fireplace.

The Venus in Libra male is attracted to women who are sophisticated, but not stuck-up or pretentious. He wants a woman with grace, charm and beauty. The man who has Venus in Libra is turned off by a woman who is rude, crude or loud. His type of woman is romantic and feminine. This male is fickle when it comes to relationships, however, and it may take him a long time to make up his mind about someone. Even after he chooses a woman to settle down with, he may have doubts that she is the “one” several years later.

Venus in Libra is regal and she knows it, carrying herself with grace and poise at all times. She vibes old world aristocracy no matter how mundane the setting. Like Queen Bey, she may be part of a power couple -- and even if the relationship is on the rocks, this Venus’s diplomatic nature is more likely to make up than break up. That said, she does love to be served. Treat her like a queen for best results.

Venus is also dominant in this sign, but her energy translates in a more elevated way here than it does Taurus. It’s all symmetry and feng shui here. If the locale isn’t beautiful or if she doesn’t have the right lingerie set on hand, chances are you’re not getting lucky. Capture Venus in Libra’s heart by never saying anything too abrasive and being kind to strangers. It’s a thing.

Other notable Venus in Libra people include real-life royalty Queen Elizabeth I and Princess Grace of Monaco.
 

Scorpio
The person who has Venus in Scorpio tends to be jealous and possessive. He or she is secretive and quite mysterious. Although this person expects others to respect his or her privacy, he or she has a tendency to probe into his partner’s personal life and has a knack for getting information out of a potential partner. For this reason, the object of the Venus in Scorpio person’s desire may feel somewhat vulnerable or exposed. He or she is also extremely seductive and is aware of the powerful affect they have on other people. This person can be quite captivating and mesmerizing to a prospective mate.

Venus in Scorpio men prefer women who are seductive and mysterious. He is attracted to women who are dynamic and powerful, rather than passive or weak-willed. The man who has Venus in Scorpio finds it difficult to respect a woman who lacks willpower and wants a woman who has a strong, forceful personality. Sexuality is extremely important to this man and he is likely to be attracted to a woman who exudes an animal magnetism or who has an overtly sexual appearance. A woman who refuses to be controlled or possessed by the Venus in Scorpio male is also particularly appealing.

 Perhaps the most intimidating of all Venus signs, Venus in Scorpio exudes power. Their aura is like a tractor beam that pulls in curious onlookers at a moment’s notice. Both of them may be surprised by the suddenness with which it occurs. The key is tapping into this power and using it consciously. Look at a few photos of famous Venus in Scorpio people, like Winona Ryder, and you’ll see it’s all in the eyes. Your gaze is your secret weapon.

The drawback? Once again, Venus is in her detriment. Here, the deep waters of Scorpio by turns buoy and overwhelm Venus -- a description which may sound eerily similar to your experience of love. Venus in Scorpio attractions are all-consuming, heady affairs with a sense of soul kinship and karmic debts to be paid. Make sure to keep your boundaries strong.

Other notable Venus in Scorpio people include brown-eyed beauties Katie Holmes and Anne Hathaway.

Sagittarius
Venus in Sagittarius people attract love by being care-free and sociable. This person can seem quite charming to a potential romantic partner, however, he or she has a tendency to be too blunt.

The Venus in Sagittarius individual is adventurous when in love, constantly seeking new experiences to share with the object of his or her affection. He or she has a good sense of humor and likes to make the loved one laugh. Above all, the Venus in Sagittarius person requires his or her space and freedom in a relationship and is willing to grant the same in return.

The man who has Venus in Sagittarius is attracted to women who have a sense of adventure. He wants a woman who is as fun-loving and care-free as he is. He is also attracted to outdoorsy and athletic types. Companionship is important to the man who has Venus in Sagittarius and any woman who wins his heart will become his best friend first. He is not attracted to women who are too complicated and prefers a woman who is honest and direct.

 In Sagittarius, Venus is the showgirl. With expansive Jupiter as her patron, she’s happy to step outside her comfort zone so long as it means the audience is entertained. There’s a slew of pop stars with this placement, one of my favorites among them being Aaliyah. Her free spirit and sense of daring embody the essence of Venus in Sagittarius.There’s an exhibitionist streak here, or at least touch of thrill addict behavior in the best way. This is the person you want to invite to your party. Scratch that. You want to be invited to their party! Just be careful that things don’t get out of hand -- make sure your lover is on the same page before moving forward with anything particularly experimental.

Other notable Venus in Sagittarius people include Top 40 divas Katy Perry and Christina Aguilera.

Capricorn
The Venus in Capricorn person is cautious when it comes to love, yet has a hidden passionate side that is only revealed once he or she feels secure. More than anything, the Venus in Capricorn person wants stability and commitment. The person who has Venus in Capricorn attracts the object of his or her desire by appearing mature and in control. This person appears reserved and emotionally aloof when in love, preferring not to reveal the depth of his or her feelings in order to avoid rejection.

The Venus in Capricorn male is attracted to women who are successful and mature. He wants a woman who is somewhat formal or aloof and as concerned about status as he is. The man who has Venus in Capricorn is interested in powerful women and may also be attracted to older women. He is attracted to strong, “executive” type females and his mate must be competent and responsible. The Venus in Capricorn male hates to play games and expects the object of his affection to take the relationship as seriously as he does.

This Venus is the pragmatist. You’ll find them in two camps: one strictly adheres to antique dating wisdom a la The Rules; the other will do whatever is most practical to get their particular needs met. Win a Venus in Capricorn over by showing them how much you’ve accomplished, and maybe flashing a luxury brand or two. They’re turned on by traditional indicators of success.Ruled by time planet Saturn, Venus in Capricorn natives tend to be late bloomers. If you or your lover has any lingering insecurities, direct communication is the best approach with this no-nonsense placement. Once that’s out of the way, you’ll have plenty of time to explore the more carnal side of Capricorn energy. After all, the sign is symbolized by lusty goat god, Pan!

The paragon of Venus in Capricorn allure is Faye Dunaway in Bonnie and Clyde, dressed to the nines and going after her money at all costs.

 

Aquarius
The Venus in Aquarius individual has a love of freedom. He or she is often reluctant to make a commitment, however, expect complete loyalty once this person takes the plunge. The person who has Venus in Aquarius wants friendship, above all else, and even his or her most intimate relationships often resemble friendship rather than romance. The Venus in Aquarius person is attracted to idealists or rebels who stand out from the crowd. This person tends to attract with a quirky, detached demeanor.

Men who have Venus in Aquarius prefer women who are intelligent, independent and free-spirited. He needs a woman who is a good conversationalist and may become bored with a woman who never has anything to say. A woman who keeps the Venus in Aquarius male guessing or is somewhat unconventional is particularly fascinating, while a woman who is too emotional or complicated is a complete turn off for him.

 Venus in Aquarius is the untouchable lover. She’s possessed of a “cool” so nonchalant it borders on alien, but it’s magnetic nonetheless. Consider Yoko Ono, the eccentric muse who captured the heart of late Beatles co-founder John Lennon. If you’re Venus in Aquarius, you may genuinely not give a shit whether or not the object of your affection reciprocates in any way, but if you do, try projecting a little more distant. It works.

Aquarius is the sign of groups, and often times Aquarian Venus people pour their love into the community instead of one individual. They’re earth angels healing the many physical and cultural wounds of our world. An alternate scenario? Venus in Aquarius is all about free love and can’t imagine tying themselves down to one partner. If nothing else, quirky Uranus as their ruler ensures that they keep it fresh in the bedroom.

Other notable Venus in Aquarius people include Kate Moss and Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge. Also, old school feminists Gertrude Stein and Simone de Beauvior.

Pisces
The person who has Venus in Pisces is often attracted to a partner who needs guidance or who suffers from some sort of affliction. He or she is sweet and sensitive towards the loved one and is often taken advantage of by unscrupulous partners.

This person lives in a romantic fantasy world and tends to idealize the partner, refusing to acknowledge his or her faults. The Venus in Pisces individual is easily hurt and tends to retreat at the first sign of disapproval or rejection. He or she often lacks self-confidence and prefers to be pursued.

The man who has Venus in Pisces tends to attract women who are romantic and emotional. A woman who is sensitive and passive is also especially appealing to this man. He is drawn to ultra-feminine or old-fashioned females who appear innocent and demure. He responds to women who are compassionate, caring and selfless, possibly a woman who works in a service-oriented field, such as a nurse or counselor. An intriguing or mysterious female is also considerably appealing to this man. The Venus in Pisces male is likely to become involved in a secret love affair during his lifetime.

The influence of Venus is an important factor in love relationships because its placement determines how a person expresses affection as well as how he or she attracts a partner. Of course, the sun sign and other zodiac planets in an astrology chart alter the Venus sign characteristics slightly, so take these factors into consideration when studying the influence of Venus.

Venus in Pisces is the true romantic. She believes in magic, soul mates, and love at first sight. That’s because the love goddess is exalted here, meaning her energy is more potent than in any other sign. For someone with this placement, even a one night stand can be a sublime experience. Music, dancing, and spirituality can enhance the experience.

In Pisces, Venus can be more of a pleasant dream than an actual lover, or at least it can seem that way. Venus has a tendency to transform herself into her partner’s most deeply held fantasy -- which can be exciting in the moment, but tricky in the long term. If you or your lover has this placement, shield yourself energetically, no matter how difficult it may seem. You’ll be much happier being yourself than someone else’s projection.

As a singer who became a legend, Selena may be the ultimate Venus in Pisces.

As for other Venus in Pisces: she's the manic pixie dream girl incarnate. Nearly every one of the fantasy girls of the millennial generation has this placement. Drew Barrymore, Kirsten Dunst, Zooey Deschanel, Kate Hudson, Claire Danes all have Venus in Pisces.

Also of note - famous erotic writer and diarist known for her poetic writings on sex and longing, Anais Nin, is a Venus in Pisces native.

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• Venus in Aquarius
• Venus in Aries
• Venus in Cancer
• Venus in Capricorn
• Venus in Gemini
• Venus in Leo
• Venus in Libra
• Venus in Sagittarius
• Venus in Scorpio
• Venus in Taurus
• Venus in Virgo

Mars in Cancer

Mars in Aries

Mars in Gemini

Mars in Taurus

Mars in Leo

Mars in Virgo

Mars in Libra

Mars in Scorpio

Mars in Sagittarius

Mars in Capricorn

Mars in Aquarius

Mars in Pisces