Sunday, November 17, 2013

How to seduce Cancer Man

Want to seduce an Cancer Man? Not sure how to go about? Below some advice on how to understand, attract and keep your Cancer man happy.

Cancer Man, of all the zodiac signs, is by far the most withdrawn. They often focus only on work, work, and work. They are easily intimidated and they lack in confidence. They tend to show competence by working over hours and having many things accomplished each day.

You meet this guy and you think “wow he is so nice”. You might hear him in the supermarket say “love you too mom”, as he hangs up his cell phone. A Cancer male is sensitive and caring man wrapped up in a manly package. Getting him is not as easy as one would think. Think of your favorite romantic comedy and apply it here. There are high points and a few low points then some reassuring and proving your love. Once you have a Cancer he is yours. A Cancerian man will never hurt the one he loves.

He is truly compassionate, warm, funny and cares about everyone and everything. That is something that comes natural to a Cancer. From saving the earth to finding that stray pup a home; they want the world to be a wonderful and safe place. Cancers like safe and traditional. They need to feel that you will stand by him through it all. When he comes home to you he needs to feel that he is safe at home and nothing can get him. Home is a natural environment for a Cancer. They love spending time there with their mate having a good dinner and watching a good movie. Make him feel safe and everything is yours.
They need reassurance that things are right. The need for reassurance often causes a Cancer male to be very shy and introverted to begin with. You may have to make the first move and ask him out. Simple and traditional is the way to go. Extra points if you invite him home for dinner for a Cancer loves home cooked meals. They love all things homemade from food to the little heart you might draw over the letter “i” on a love note. They need to know you care and you are just as committed as they are. The first date should be full of questions about him and his past. He loves his childhood and his family and would love to share every story with you. He likes to be touched so do it every chance you get. Cancers are ruled by the moon, they will appreciate your understanding and compassion. Once they feel your compassion and know it is genuine, his pants will want to come down.

Be his friend first. Let him know this. Let him know that before you want to make love, you want to make sure this will work for the long haul. The more he hears and knows you want a commitment and true relationship the more special he will view you; say “long-term” he will be right there to give it to you–both the relationship and his member. If there ever is a zodiac sign to be honest with about a broken heart, it is the Cancer. He will be there for you and make sure it will never happen again on his watch. The Cancer guy craves a deep and meaningful relationship. Being able to connect with someone on various levels is imperative. Get to know the people that are close to him, like his parents or best friend. If you win them over you may won half the battle. For all the safety and security you try to provide for him, he will provide right back.

When it comes time to bed your Cancer male be prepared for a night to remember. He will draw it out for hours. Foreplay will be slow and meticulous. You will feel every ounce of passion he feels toward you. He will make sure that you are happy. Just make sure you give back as good as you got it and let him know how wonderful it feels. With a Cancer, you make love. He does not fuck… its love. If he is really into you, the thrusts are deep and long. The greatest erogenous zone for Cancer is his chest. He will respond well to sucking and kissing his nipples. Gently tease them, slowly blow on them… he will be putty in your hands. It might be 10pm when you start but it will 3am by the time you roll away from each other breathing rapid and deep trying to come back down from the high. One thing is for sure, you never have a sexual complaint with a Cancer.

Once you cross over from friendship to bed friends, your battle is not won yet. Remain consistent. Keep the assurances flowing and the flirtations meaningful. Call him at work to say you were thinking about him and how good he felt inside you. Build trust with them and they will grow closer to you. When he comes home from work, you should ask him about his day. After you hug and soothe him then tell him it’s over, he’s home. He will let it go and curl up with you on the couch. Cancers are moody but those moods can easily be manipulated for the sanctity of the relationship. Never take advantage of a Cancer. He needs to know that while he can open up to you with everything, you will keep him in line.
For better or for worse, you Cancer male will be the one you might just settle down with. He needs you to be loyal and faithful for he is the same. Cancer men are the most loyal of the astrology signs. They make excellent lovers for person who loves romance and being swept off their feet. As you dated, the love nest became a safe haven and you became equated with trust and safety. To a Cancer this is love and seduction all wrapped in one. You love to love him and he knows it. When you part for work he knows he is coming home to the love nest you created to have a warm and cozy night with you. The nights will round out but a sweet session of love and passion then a blissful sleep. The Cancer male will give you the fairy tale if you will be his princess.

So how do you make a Cancer Man notice you?
Cancer Men love their mothers above anything else and they find those people who love their mothers more attractive than anyone else. So if you are to start a conversation why not try to drop something about your latest bonding experience with your mom. He will surely get him talking and you will be surprised how interesting Cancer Man can be. You can also tell him his resemblance with his mother if you there is a picture of her on his table, which is most probable.

Another thing about Cancer Man is that they are very neat and organized. You can always find a lot of folders, file cabinets, and papers arranged in a neatly manner inside his cubicle. So if you want to make a good impression on him, make sure that you are also neat and organized.

Telling your Cancer Man that you like him straight and forward may be the first thing you need not to do. They are withdrawn, which means any form of flattery or confession to them gives them the creeps of a foreseen pitfall and failure. So instead, slowly make him realize how you feel for him. Always be gentle and slowly build his confidence in you. A good manifestation of your success in getting him attracted is when he started seeing you after office hours instead of staying late for work.

Cancer Men are also good at cooking and household chores. This may not be to attractive for you but itwill surely get you captivated once get a taste of his culinary. For Cancer Men, doing household chores is a pleasure activity so a good start-off bonding moment for the two of you is to invite him help you organize your newly bought apartment or cook some old difficult recipes together.

Cancer Men also demands less from their partners. As long as they feel that you appreciate them, they will sure love you above anything else. Once you get into a relationship status, there can only be one stumbling block left unturned, his motherly affection. Your relationship might be in trouble if you fail to establish a good one with his mother. It will be fine as long as you have established in your relationship that mother-business is out of your you-and-me business. But if you are one lucky girl to have his mom vote for you, then your love is cemented, and you no longer need to worry because Cancer man are always loyal and they are consistent.

Cancer Man Personality
To be successful in your seduction strategy you need to understand your Cancer man. Below some keywords to keep them in mind when dealing with your Cancer man.
  • Moody, sensitive, loyal, dependable, caring, responsible,
  • Adaptable,  responsive, clingy, introverted, reserved, insecure,
  • emotional,  moody, sympathetic, security-conscious, prudent,
  • retentive,  domestic, maternal, protective, quiet, calm,
  • imaginative, conscientious, traditionalist, purposeful.

After Hello
Now that you know what motivates him, how do you get his attention?
First of all, be there for him. And secondly, do a lot of mothering. Fuss about him. Worry about him.  The purpose of all this mothering and fussing is to make him feel safe.  He is always looking for affection and closeness because his main goal is to have a stable relationship.
A Cancer man is a sensitive soul who can be easily hurt in his feelings when he senses disloyalty from somebody he loves. Therefore, if you can provide a sense of security for him, he will be yours.
The Cancer man is courteous and polite, a romantic that dreams about security, family and praises traditional values. Because he is ruled by the moon, your cancer man can run hot and cold in quick succession. One second he is passionate and, the other, cautious, closed off.

First Moves
Bring him baked goods, preferably homemade.  It can be anything as long as it shows that you took the time to make it for him.
Show some cleavage. Cancer rules the breasts in astrology, therefore, he is the ultimate ‘boob” man.
Be considerate of his feelings. Above all, be accepting of his swing moods but also be concerned “You sound like something is bothering you. What’s wrong?”
Be family oriented and have a healthy respect for tradition.
Learn how to read the cancer moods and understand what your Cancer man needs from you at that moment. If he seems grumpy, he might be trying to tell you that he feels unwanted and wants support; if he is being argumentative, it’s probably because he feels unacknowledged, so praise him; if he gets close to you, he wants reassurance and TLC.

Keeping Him Seduced
You need to know how he feels about his mom, because that will tell you how he is going to treat you. This is true of all men, but with Cancer it’s amplified to the nth degree. If he thinks his mother is Mary Magdalene, be prepared to worship her. Become his mother’s best friend, ally, buddy, etc…
If he has difficulties with his mother, beware and think hard before engaging in a relationship with him.
Learn to cook like his mother, learn all his favorite recipes and change  nothing, so that your cooking tastes just like hers. That’s because he loves his mother’s cooking best.  And understand that of course her cooking will always be better than yours.
Love children and be prepared to have a big family. Be prepared to reassure him of your love and affection often. Cancer man needs a lot of affection. So, if this is your natural tendency, shower him with tons of affection, tenderness and caring.
If you follow the above you should not have trouble getting cozy with your Cancer man. Of all the 12 signs, Cancer is the easiest to  have a stable relationship with, if this is what you want.

Good luck and let me know how your seduction strategy went!

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  1. Cancer man will left you with tons of nostalgia and pain...SaFen

  2. I started dating a Cancer a few months ago. I didn't know much about Cancer and was totally baffled by this one. 3 months later, he still hasn't tried to see my boobs or get me baked. Haha he is my dream man, and as I'm learning more about his sign, he is a cancer to a T!!!!

  3. so glad I read this. now I understand this Cancer man I have been dating for three months and have been completely confused! he has not tried to see my boobs, I know he is a total boob man, And loves my chest. we have not made love but have had very slow sensual foreplay. this describes him to a T!! He's a gem even of he is moody, withdrawn, closed up, and overly neat and organized. he is not like any guy I have known and now I know I have to take a completely different approach with him than other guys. all that bad advice from dating experts, they need a special section with exceptions to dating a Cancer man! def different!

  4. Cancer men remember and pay attention to a lot of details on the person they love/care about. When they show you affection, show it back twice as much. Let them know and feel that you love them. Take care of them as they take care of you. My cancer ex was very tender, warm, loving, sensual and protective of me when we were together. He made me feel like I was the apple of his eye. He instinctively knew how to treat me and would come up to me and start massaging me. He NEVER ever made me feel compromised in any way.He was my rock and my angel. I wanted to give myself to him completely (my virginity) but he split with me because his family didn't approve of me. No other woman can truly love him as deeply as I do. I will always miss and love him till the end of time. He instilled something in me that no one else could. For that he will always have a special place in my heart whether I like it or not


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