The Influence Of Venus In Love Relationships

The Venus sign determines a person’s love nature as well as how he or she attracts a partner. In a man’s chart, the placement of Venus determines the type of woman he is attracted to. In a woman’s chart, Venus determines her view of femininity, as well as how she expresses her feminine qualities. Venus represents love, sensuality, romance, beauty, affection and social appeal. Its placement in your natal chart provides insight into what you are attracted to in a partner as well as what type of person is attracted to you. Use the following guide to determine your love nature and find out how to attract a man based on his Venus sign characteristics.

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Aries
The Venus in Aries individual attracts love by being confident, spontaneous and bold. Both males and females of this Venus sign enjoy the chase involved during courtship and become even more persistent when the object of his or her affection plays hard to get. The person who has Venus in Aries enjoys making the first move in a love relationship. Mars, the ruling planet of Aries, rules beginnings so this person is particularly exciting during the beginning stages of a relationship; he or she has a lot of passion and loves adventure. The relationship must remain exciting and challenging, however, in order to keep the Venus in Aries person’s interest.

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Venus in Gemini

Gemini in Love

Venus in Gemini

This position of Venus indicates a surface vivaciousness in your personality and actions. You are able to put on a good show, thereby attracting and fooling your audience into thinking there is more depth to your feelings than actually is there. You cover a lot of territory, displaying your vast experience to advantage.

However, when you fool other people you fool yourself as well. As Venus progresses into another sign or house you may also begin to feel a lack of depth. You may feel that you have missed much that life has to offer by not sinking more deeply into situations you have been able to skip lightly over.

It will help if your Sun occupies one of the adjoining signs. Although this will only make you more aware of the real situation. You will have to make up for what this innate position of Venus grants you. As each of the transits touch this position you will learn to adjust what you really want out of life from your accumulated experience.

Very flirtatious and may love a couple of people simultaneously (I would even dare to say that the love to both may be genuine). Venus in Gemini attracts good looking mercurian women that come in and out of your life very fast. May have a bit of a shallow taste.

Also really loves verbal communication, Venus in Gemini really enjoys a good chat and a display of intelligence. Loves erotic text messaging and phone calls, as well as dirty talking. And will have plenty of tricks up their sleeves. May indicate bisexuality, as well as Mars in Gemini.

If you want to capture the heart of someone with this placement, you need to be able to talk about everything and have well rounded knowledge. You can also stimulate them by sharing random links, jokes or trivia with them.

And yes, Venus in Gemini really loves a good laugh. Artistically speaking, it communicates beautifully as a poet or a vocalist. If your partner is a Venus in Gemini, try to tolerate some innocent flirting (as annoying as it can get), but be wary if you want a traditional commitment as this placement is also prone to “cheating”.

Sharp, bright wit and sparkle and a boundless curiosity about life and other people, are your trademarks. You love fashion -and anything that glitters – and would do well in the media. No one is more fun to be with, but others can find it tricky to keep up. Gemini is often called the zodiac’s butterfly, which means that when it comes to love, you can find it hard to settle for one person.
Venus in Gemini is friendly and warm-hearted, but because you can, and do, charm anyone you choose to, others see you as flirtatious, even fickle. Well, you can be, but then you really cannot help it, as a thirst for knowledge and experience is what drives you.

You like to get to know as many people as you can. And you can be prone to wild enthusiasms for people you soon tire of. Anyone who fails to interest or amuse you is a non-starter, either as a friend or lover. But when you find someone who understands your need for freedom – and who is happy to spend half the night up talking – you will give them everything you’ve got. Even when you fall for someone, domestic bliss, (not to mention household chores), is not your thing. But then, you are the life and soul of the party, so what can they expect?

Love and Relating for Venus in Gemini person- Venus in Gemini Compatibility

Remember that someone may show strong Gemini or Taurus traits, perhaps because they have the Moon or Venus here, but have the Sun in quite another zodiac sign.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with fiery, pioneering Aries:
Whirlwind meets tornado: their impulsive and spontaneous nature puts them on your wavelength, but maintaining the fast tempo could prove tricky.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with down to earth and loyal Taurus:
At first you are attracted by their sensuous, voluptuous nature, but it could prove too much of a good thing, and you can find them fixed and slow.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with quick-witted, restless Gemini:
You both like to have loads of fun. Great communication and mental rapport, but hard to unwind and find the time to spend alone together!

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with sensitive, maternal Cancer:
You like to go out. They like to stay in. So not much contact, and you can find them clingy, although you could appreciate their protective, caring nature.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with dramatic and romantic Leo:
A dynamic combination. You are both extroverts, but you could find them just a bit too hot to handle- and too interested in their own image.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with cool, realistic Virgo:
They can earth you- and spend hours talking. Even if you find them a bit fussy, look on the bright side- they can do the housework!

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with romantic and sophisticated Libra:
Orchids, candlelight, romance, you’ll love their, elegance and charm- and soft sweet-talk- but is it you, or Love, they are in love with?

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with intense, passionate Scorpio:
They are loyal, passionate and sultry : watch your step, and don’t get in too deep with them unless you really mean it, or you could regret it.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with adventurous, idealistic Sagittarius:
They are even more adventurous than you are, both in life and love. You can reach the wilder shores of almost anywhere with them, but will it last?

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with reserved and loyal Capricorn:
They are rock-solid- and reserved, which could be a relief, as you like to keep deep feelings at arm’s length- but don’t expect too much frivolity and fun.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with idealistic and free-thinking Aquarius:
You like their laid-back, unconventional approach, and you respect each others’ need for space and freedom. A chance to find a real soul-mate.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with sensitive and dreamy Pisces:
You could find them far too emotional- and sentimental- for your liking, but their sympathy could soothe and comfort you when you are stressed.

Venus in Gemini lover is the charmer of the zodiac. This is the most emotionally-detached sign of the zodiac. Gemini is the first air sign and, like air, comes and goes as it pleases. Falling in love isn’t hard for Venus in Gemini. If they love you, they’ll show it lightly and playfully; no heavy emotional displays or extravagant gifts. For Venus in Gemini, friendship will be a vital component of love. They are really looking for a companion - someone they enjoy talking to and with whom they can share their ideas and interests. They like to remain friends with all of their past lovers, they cannot bear to end friendships. Friendships mean more to them than romances. Shakespeare was born with Venus in Gemini and was of course able to describe the feelings of Romeo and Juliet down to its last detail. Venus in Gemini people will try to win over the object of their affection with witty conversation, displaying just how much they "know", and demonstrating their diverse interests.

They are hard to pin down, and they resist relationships that promise to become too "comfortable". In love, their tastes change often, and it can be hard to know what to expect from one day to the next. The Venus in Gemini likes a lover who is a little different each time. Time spent with your Gemini lover will be exciting and invigorating. The Gemini need for variety is not so much sexual as it is a need for mental stimulation. The Gemini lover never really means any harm; these are not fighters like Aries, nor manipulators like Scorpio. They may like to talk during sex. They can feel intimately close with both sexes. But regardless of looks, intelligence and quick wit is what turns them on. Some celebrities with Venus in Aries include Robert Pattinson, Russell Crowe, Sandra Bullock, Al Pacino, Kylie Minogue, Megan Fox, President JFK, Naomi Campbell and Harrison Ford.

How to Love Venus in Gemini ?

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To make your Gemini lover feel loved, be a listener. They need immediate sounding boards for all of their thoughts. If you do this for them, they will feel very close to you. But you must also be talkative, or else they will get bored and leave you. Provide mental stimulation by asking them lots of questions about any subject. Be peppy and outgoing. They need variety, so be interesting. If you have a split personality, even better. To keep a Gemini happy you must allow them freedom to come and go as they please. If you try to cage them in at all, they will disappear. Never mention “commitment” or “marriage” because they will disappear. Don’t be boring, wanting to stay home all the time, because they will leave you. If you provide enough freedom, mental stimulation, and forgiveness, your Gemini lover will always return to you after flying off for a bit. Pleasing Venus in Gemini involves supporting their need for fun and variety, showing interest in their brainpower and knowledge, and giving them space for friends and activities outside of the relationship. Let them know just how much fun you have with them.

Female: This woman needs a man who is her intellectual superior. If you are in love with a Venus-in-Gemini woman, you should exert yourself to be amusing! She needs for you to be very open in the way you communicate with her, and so it’s fine to tell her every little thing that goes through your mind. You can also use words to get her into an erotic mood, but choose them carefully. Women with Venus in Gemini are often changeable in their sympathy. They are changeable, mysterious and, at the same time, are diplomatic and independent. She is naturally friendly and knows how to exploit her charms in order to attract patrons and benefactors. She is in need for constant stimulation which keeps her on the move, often away from deepening bonds.

Male: The male Gemini lover is probably the only male in the zodiac that is not attracted to a person based on their looks. The Venus in Gemini male is attracted to women who are intelligent and clever. He must connect with a woman on a mental level before physical desire takes place. He wants a smart, intellectual lover who knows how to carry on a decent conversation. The Venus in Gemini male truly enjoys the flirtation and mind games that take place during the courtship stage of a relationship. He also tends to be attracted to average-looking women who are witty and interesting, rather than gorgeous females who have nothing to talk about. A woman who can keep him guessing is particularly attractive. His biggest fear is boredom, so he tends to also find complex women a turn on.

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