The type of woman who attracts the emotionally volatile Scorpio man is very vital, passionate, and intense. They rend to go for dynamic and powerful types of women who aren't indecisive, weak willed pushovers.
He is a man of power in your life. He might be your boss, the one whose desk you want to spread out across. He might be the police officer you want “frisking” you. Needless to say, he is the man holding all your cards…or cuffs. The Scorpio male can take one look at you, bore deep into your soul and know how to make you want him and do anything he asks, all without lifting a finger. Right out of a romance novel, he is mysterious and intense. Everything about him screams power: his emotions, his attitude and more importantly, his sexuality. The Scorpio male is a walking magnet and there is no fighting the attraction.
Why fight it? You are only fooling yourself. You want to know what is behind the intensity of his stare. You want to know what he is thinking. You want to know what it feels like under him as he rocks your body. And all he did was look you in your eyes without even speaking a word to you yet. Give in, give into him and let him take you along for his ride. Before you make a move, ask yourself how strong you really are. Can you act, feel and think with EVERY fiber of your being? If you can, then do yourself the favor and go get your Scorpio.
Do not be afraid to approach him. Instead of asking for his number, give him yours. Tell him how attractive you find him and if he wants a good time to call. Making the first move could very well turn him on and hook him right then and there. He likes confidence and bold sexuality in a partner. This lets him know that whatever may come, you are up for the task. When he does call, let him plan the date. Scorpio men are fascinating creatures so there is never a dull moment. Where they choose to take you out will be some sort of personal reflection of who they are.
Wherever you go on your date with him, give him your undivided attention. A Scorpio is a sucker for details and while you may not realize he is doing it, he is observing and documenting every single nuance of the evening. On your date, dress the part. You are on a date with a powerfully sensual man; keep that in mind when you dress. Accentuate your best features, low cut top if you have an ample bosom or snug fit pants if your ass is… well your best asset. If he can’t keep his eyes off your lips while you are speaking or his hand off your rear when you are walking, you have achieved your goal for that night.
Scorpios do not fall in love at first sight but when they do he won’t be able to get enough. He will want nothing but you both emotionally and physically, day and night. Consequently, the Scorpio man is one of the most impressive love-makers in the zodiac. Sexually, his passion in bed is unmatched and could be describe as soulful. The man could last for hours with proper stimulation and will use each minute to fulfill any fantasy you may have and more. When you have a sexual relationship with a Scorpio, there is no need for a gym membership. You will feel that delicious work out burn when you wake up every morning after a night with him.
Emotionally, you never doubt how much your Scorpio man adores you. Every fiber of your being will feel it. As your relationship matures and learns all he can about you, he will know just how to give you exactly what you need. Just understand that while they will give you all you need, they have to be in control of the relationship. Often times, it is this trait that is their undoing making them one of the most misunderstood signs in the zodiac. Do not take this need personally unlike many before you who probably have.
Scorpios are much like the animal that represents them, calculating and unpredictable. He will plan his moves carefully, never wasting time, but never rushing. All of his relationships will more than likely follow this pattern. They are very private by nature and independent. At times it is misunderstood to be secretive and deceptive. Just like the arachnid that represents them, they do not sting unless you have threatened them in some way. Otherwise he is direct and passionate. Because of their intuitive natures, he understands his partner’s needs and will do his best to meet them. He can be hard to handle, but will make his partner feel like the center of the universe… so long as their partner is loyal.
Scorpios take themselves and their relationships very seriously. To keep them you must do the same. Be affectionate and open towards him. This and your sensitivity will appeal to his emotions but carry on only if you want a close relationship with him. Do not attempt to lead him on if you are not ready for a long and meaningful relationship. Toying with a Scorpio male is an unwise move. Throw the games out the window. This means no playing on their jealous nature or anything that will put them on the defensive. They do not forgive and forget, their sting will be vindictive and he will destroy your core.
The Scorpio is the sign of extremes and intensity. For them it is all or nothing. They are very deep, passionate people and there is more to them than what you see on the surface. Lying underneath is tremendous power, a very passionate sexuality and strength of character. Scorpio men make excellent protectors and you will always feel safe and loved. The person that he falls for will be treated with remarkable compassion, absolute loyalty and vast generosity. The relationship you will have with your Scorpio will be just as strong and binding as the magnetism that drew you to him.
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