Gemini in Love
Venus in Gemini
This position of Venus indicates a
surface vivaciousness in your personality and actions. You are able to
put on a good show, thereby attracting and fooling your audience into
thinking there is more depth to your feelings than actually is there.
You cover a lot of territory, displaying your vast experience to
advantage.
However, when you fool other people you
fool yourself as well. As Venus progresses into another sign or house
you may also begin to feel a lack of depth. You may feel that you have
missed much that life has to offer by not sinking more deeply into
situations you have been able to skip lightly over.
It will help if your Sun occupies one of
the adjoining signs. Although this will only make you more aware of the
real situation. You will have to make up for what this innate position
of Venus grants you. As each of the transits touch this position you
will learn to adjust what you really want out of life from your
accumulated experience.
Very flirtatious and may love a couple
of people simultaneously (I would even dare to say that the love to both
may be genuine). Venus in Gemini attracts good looking mercurian women
that come in and out of your life very fast. May have a bit of a shallow
taste.
Also really loves verbal communication,
Venus in Gemini really enjoys a good chat and a display of intelligence.
Loves erotic text messaging and phone calls, as well as dirty talking.
And will have plenty of tricks up their sleeves. May indicate
bisexuality, as well as Mars in Gemini.
If you want to capture the heart of
someone with this placement, you need to be able to talk about
everything and have well rounded knowledge. You can also stimulate them
by sharing random links, jokes or trivia with them.
And yes, Venus in Gemini really loves a
good laugh. Artistically speaking, it communicates beautifully as a poet
or a vocalist. If your partner is a Venus in Gemini, try to tolerate
some innocent flirting (as annoying as it can get), but be wary if you
want a traditional commitment as this placement is also prone to
“cheating”.
Sharp, bright wit and sparkle and a boundless curiosity about life
and other people, are your trademarks. You love fashion -and anything
that glitters – and would do well in the media. No one is more fun to be
with, but others can find it tricky to keep up. Gemini is often called
the zodiac’s butterfly, which means that when it comes to love, you can
find it hard to settle for one person.
Venus in Gemini is friendly and warm-hearted, but because you can,
and do, charm anyone you choose to, others see you as flirtatious, even
fickle. Well, you can be, but then you really cannot help it, as a
thirst for knowledge and experience is what drives you.
You like to get to know as many people
as you can. And you can be prone to wild enthusiasms for people you soon
tire of. Anyone who fails to interest or amuse you is a non-starter,
either as a friend or lover. But when you find someone who understands
your need for freedom – and who is happy to spend half the night up
talking – you will give them everything you’ve got. Even when you fall
for someone, domestic bliss, (not to mention household chores), is not
your thing. But then, you are the life and soul of the party, so what
can they expect?
Love and Relating for Venus in Gemini person- Venus in Gemini Compatibility
Remember that someone may show strong
Gemini or Taurus traits, perhaps because they have the Moon or Venus
here, but have the Sun in quite another zodiac sign.
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with fiery, pioneering Aries:
Whirlwind meets tornado: their impulsive and spontaneous nature puts
them on your wavelength, but maintaining the fast tempo could prove
tricky.
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with down to earth and loyal Taurus:
At first you are attracted by their sensuous, voluptuous nature, but it
could prove too much of a good thing, and you can find them fixed and
slow.
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with quick-witted, restless Gemini:
You both like to have loads of fun. Great communication and mental
rapport, but hard to unwind and find the time to spend alone together!
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with sensitive, maternal Cancer:
You like to go out. They like to stay in. So not much contact, and you
can find them clingy, although you could appreciate their protective,
caring nature.
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with dramatic and romantic Leo:
A dynamic combination. You are both extroverts, but you could find them
just a bit too hot to handle- and too interested in their own image.
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with cool, realistic Virgo:
They can earth you- and spend hours talking. Even if you find them a bit
fussy, look on the bright side- they can do the housework!
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with romantic and sophisticated Libra:
Orchids, candlelight, romance, you’ll love their, elegance and charm-
and soft sweet-talk- but is it you, or Love, they are in love with?
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with intense, passionate Scorpio:
They are loyal, passionate and sultry : watch your step, and don’t get
in too deep with them unless you really mean it, or you could regret it.
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with adventurous, idealistic Sagittarius:
They are even more adventurous than you are, both in life and love. You
can reach the wilder shores of almost anywhere with them, but will it
last?
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with reserved and loyal Capricorn:
They are rock-solid- and reserved, which could be a relief, as you like
to keep deep feelings at arm’s length- but don’t expect too much
frivolity and fun.
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with idealistic and free-thinking Aquarius:
You like their laid-back, unconventional approach, and you respect each
others’ need for space and freedom. A chance to find a real soul-mate.
Venus in Gemini Compatibility with sensitive and dreamy Pisces:
You could find them far too emotional- and sentimental- for your liking,
but their sympathy could soothe and comfort you when you are stressed.
Venus in Gemini lover is the charmer of the zodiac. This is the most emotionally-detached
sign of the zodiac. Gemini is the first air sign and, like air, comes
and goes as it pleases. Falling in love isn’t hard for Venus in Gemini.
If they love you, they’ll show it lightly and playfully; no heavy
emotional displays or extravagant gifts. For Venus in Gemini, friendship
will be a vital component of love. They are really looking for a
companion - someone they enjoy talking to and with whom they can share
their ideas and interests. They like to remain friends with all of their
past lovers, they cannot bear to end friendships. Friendships mean more
to them than romances. Shakespeare was born with Venus in Gemini and
was of course able to describe the feelings of Romeo and Juliet down to
its last detail. Venus in Gemini people will try to win over the object
of their affection with witty conversation, displaying just how much
they "know", and demonstrating their diverse interests.
They are hard to pin down, and they resist relationships that promise to become too "comfortable". In love, their tastes change
often, and it can be hard to know what to expect from one day to the
next. The Venus in Gemini likes a lover who is a little different each
time. Time spent with your Gemini lover will be exciting and
invigorating. The Gemini need for variety is not so much sexual as it is
a need for mental stimulation. The Gemini lover never
really means any harm; these are not fighters like Aries, nor
manipulators like Scorpio. They may like to talk during sex. They can
feel intimately close with both sexes. But regardless of looks,
intelligence and quick wit is what turns them on. Some celebrities with
Venus in Aries include Robert Pattinson, Russell Crowe, Sandra Bullock,
Al Pacino, Kylie Minogue, Megan Fox, President JFK, Naomi Campbell and
Harrison Ford.
How to Love Venus in Gemini ?
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To make your Gemini lover feel loved, be a listener.
They need immediate sounding boards for all of their thoughts. If you do
this for them, they will feel very close to you. But you must also be
talkative, or else they will get bored and leave you. Provide mental
stimulation by asking them lots of questions about any subject. Be peppy
and outgoing. They need variety, so be interesting. If you have a split
personality, even better. To keep a Gemini happy you must allow them
freedom to come and go as they please. If you try to cage them in at
all, they will disappear. Never mention “commitment” or “marriage”
because they will disappear. Don’t be boring, wanting to stay home all
the time, because they will leave you. If you provide enough freedom,
mental stimulation, and forgiveness, your Gemini lover will always
return to you after flying off for a bit. Pleasing Venus in Gemini
involves supporting their need for fun and variety, showing interest in
their brainpower and knowledge, and giving them space for friends and
activities outside of the relationship. Let them know just how much fun
you have with them.
Female: This woman needs a man who
is her intellectual superior. If you are in love with a Venus-in-Gemini
woman, you should exert yourself to be amusing! She needs for you to be
very open in the way you communicate with her, and so it’s fine to tell
her every little thing that goes through your mind. You can also use
words to get her into an erotic mood, but choose them carefully. Women
with Venus in Gemini are often changeable in their sympathy. They are
changeable, mysterious and, at the same time, are diplomatic and
independent. She is naturally friendly and knows how to exploit her
charms in order to attract patrons and benefactors. She is in need for
constant stimulation which keeps her on the move, often away from
deepening bonds.
Male: The male Gemini lover is
probably the only male in the zodiac that is not attracted to a person
based on their looks. The Venus in Gemini male is attracted to women who
are intelligent and clever. He must connect with a woman on a mental
level before physical desire takes place. He wants a smart,
intellectual lover who knows how to carry on a decent conversation. The
Venus in Gemini male truly enjoys the flirtation and mind games that
take place during the courtship stage of a relationship. He also tends
to be attracted to average-looking women who are witty and interesting,
rather than gorgeous females who have nothing to talk about. A woman who
can keep him guessing is particularly attractive. His biggest fear is
boredom, so he tends to also find complex women a turn on.
More On :
Mars in Aries
Mars in Gemini
Mars in Taurus
Mars in Leo
Mars in Virgo
Mars in Libra
Mars in Scorpio
Mars in Sagittarius
Mars in Capricorn
Mars in Aquarius
Mars in Pisces
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