Scorpio in Love
Venus in Scorpio:
Venus in Scorpio is do or die. I’ve seen
both saints and harlots with this placement, and seen the same person
transform from one to the other. Because it is the all or nothing.
People with Venus in scorpio may stay single for years looking for the
perfect one, and then give them their pure devotion and loyality.
On the other hand, they may use the
secretive Scorpio energy to lurk in very murky waters of prostitution
and its many cousins, maintaining a surprisingly clean and innocent
facade.
In both cases, this is a very possessive
placement and takes no BS, once it smells betrayal or a subtle hurtful
comment, it will never forget and hell will break loose. But at the same
time, its very sexual and alluring with great magnetic charm. Many dark
artists and religious fanatics have this placement! May also have a
twisted and even kinky taste, often with a preference to things that are
taboo.
This position of Venus is difficult at
best. It is perhaps least hazardous when it accompanies a Scorpio or
Eighth House Sun, although there are also difficulties with this
position.
If the Sun is also in Scorpio you have
more self direction and control with this position of Venus. You are
also dependent on a strong measure of self-control. It is up to you to
set your own standards, for better or for worse. Partnerships become
more difficult.
If your Sun is in one of the other
possible signs (Virgo, the Sixth House; Libra, the Seventh House;
Sagittarius, the Ninth House; Capricorn, the Tenth House) you will find
it extremely difficult to control and express your desires, passions and
affections in a way that brings you satisfaction and respect. Libra is
particularly vulnerable with its ruler in Scorpio. Scorpio is the sign
of transformation. Venus’ attractive power is oriented toward
possession, hanging on to and owning what you possess, even people.
This is the irresistible force meeting
the immovable object. Something has to give. Life itself depends on
meeting this challenge. Venus holds it’s greatest sway over the opposite
sign Taurus. In Scorpio, it must bend adapt and adjust it’s nature to
transcend the methods which have brought it this far. There must be a
purpose to the accumulation of wealth and power. This is the real test
of value. A selfish purpose means death to the individual. Proper
distribution is the challenge. Here it becomes a life and death matter
to know where to let go to proper advantage. Some people will do this
very well. Others will destroy not only others but themselves rather
than live and let live.
Venus in Scorpio is probably the most emotionally intense and passionate sign of the Zodiac. It is also the most mysterious and its power is most obvious in the night time.
In love, Venus in Scorpio like to have long term relationships and have
difficulty coping with breakups because they get so deeply involved.
Those born with their Venus in Scorpio will be intensely romantic, direct and determined. Their strong feelings can sometimes cross the line into jealousy and possessiveness. They are sexually magnetic in a very physical way. Their intensity and passion combine with dedication and dominance
to create a person who requires their partner to put it all on the line
as they will. If they turn their attention towards a potential mate,
all of their physical, mental and emotional energies will be placed
behind that task.
Venus in Scorpio loves mystery and knows that there's
a purpose for his strong sexual magnetism. Venus in Scorpio need to
feel empowered can manifest in manipulation and controlling behaviour and his hearty sexual appetite can degenerate into promiscuity and sex addiction.
This people needs a mate who appreciates and encourages his passion and
intensity. The best insurance against the shadow side is a
Venus-in-Scorpio who is secure and proud of his special gifts:
magnetism, mystical sense of magic, ability to feel deeply and his acute sensitivity
to others. Very sexually-oriented, Venus in Scorpio needs a partner who
is as passionate about life -- and all its mysteries -- as he is!
Famous Celebrity with Venus in Scorpio: Leonardo DiCaprio, Steven
Spielberg, Bill Gates, Demi Moore, Jean-Claude Van Damme, Jodie Foster
and Christopher Reeve.
How to Love Venus in Scorpio?
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Pleasing Venus in Scorpio involves demonstrating your
complete commitment and loyalty to them. Those with their Venus in
Scorpio need a partner that can be partially submissive while standing
their ground against further attempts to dominate them. If you can, and
they're deserving, relinquish some of the control in the relationship.
Let them feel they own you, without taking it to extremes. Remember,
though, that some Venus in Scorpio lovers can and will take advantage of
you on a subtle level, if only to keep you all to themselves. Let them
have their secrets and their silences. It can be a tricky tightrope to
walk but can be worth it. Everything the Scorpio does is rooted in deep,
almost instinctual emotions that they may be able to mask but they
can't subdue. If a partner is able to keep the dark aspects of this
personality at bay, the lighter ones will make them feel like the most
important person in the universe.
Female:
No-one takes love and relationships more seriously than Venus in
Scorpio woman do. She is seeking nothing less than complete merger with a
partner - body, mind and spirit. Women with Venus in Scorpio project a
powerful sensuality and magnetism that can be both enticing and
intimidating. There is something mysterious about she that makes her
irresistible to many men, even if she is not especially pretty.
Extremely emotional, she realize how strong her feelings are and how
deeply she can be hurt if a love affair doesn't work out; therefore, she
is sceptical and cautious about getting involved. Once she commit
herself in love, however, she do so totally and permanently.
Male:
Venus in Scorpio man has a capacity to love deeply, though his intense
feelings may be difficult to express. At times, his love can lead him
into painful emotional crises. With Venus in Scorpio, there will be a
tendency to go to extremes in love relationships. In many ways, he
thrive on crisis, as he need the intensity it brings. What he cannot
stand is bland nothingness. Men with this planetary position are most
interested in women who are dark, intense, mysterious and obviously
sexual, the kind you wouldn't think of taking home to meet your mother.
Love is always sexual for him, and he can take his partners to some deep
and dark places in their search for the depth of union he crave.
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- Venus in Virgo
hi, nyxie,
ReplyDeletei've been here before, of course.
and my husband has this placement.
however, let me tell you, another scorpio venus is not always their best match either. I have researched quite a bit of scorpio venuses, (under different sun signs) and many of them choose other venus signs. But the truth is, which is parallel to what astro says, is that they dont like "weakness" so the love they want from their partner has to have strength. through thick and thin kind of strength. the lowest and the highest. Most people love the highest and stay there but life has it's ups and downs and if their partner doesn't stand the test of time, it's a no-go.
This analysis is SO TRUE. I have venus in scorpio placement and it's as if God himself wrote this. It's either black or white, no in between and we NEVER forgive. I have often said that I will DIE for those that I love and if I don't find what I'm looking for in a mate, I'll just remain single forever. Scary how absolute we are, but it's all so true.
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