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Venus in Libra

Libra in Love

Venus in Libra:

High artistic and aesthetic taste, might as well be an artist themselves. This is a good placement as they tend to be strategic and very well balanced and detached in love matters. To them, love is a strategy game. Of course to the cool Venus in libra everything moves slowly and carefully, with great detachment, often leaving their lovers boiling with anticipation. It is no wonder that librans have captured so many hearts then! They can be a designer or an architect, something that deals with intellectual and higher aesthetics.

This position for Venus is becoming more and more uncomfortable as Libra’s influence is evolving. It is worse if it accompanies a Libra Sun. In this case you are blinded by a desire for perfection.

In any case, you are very sensitive, particularly where relationships are involved. It means that you have extreme difficulty in dealing with any ugliness or pollution which really abounds at the present time. You want to make everything beautiful and harmonious but do not have the strength to deal with things that need to be dealt with in a very positive and powerful manner.

You have difficulty believing anything bad about anyone. When you are convinced of anyone’s incorrigibleness, you simply want to eliminate that person from your environment rather that dealing with the realities of the situation. This is very hard on the kidneys. There are just too many things you are unable to fix or even do anything about.

Venus in Libra is a very romantic sign but not in a very emotional way. Libra is an air sign. They enjoy sharing, partnerships and being in love is very important for them. Venus in Libra absolutely needs to be in a committed relationship, but can be emotionally detached. They express affection lightly, not dramatically or emotionally. When a Venus in Libra loves you, they will treat you with fairness, consideration, and gentleness. This lover is graceful, beautiful, and diplomatic. But diplomatic simply means that they will tell you whatever you want to hear. Besides the little white diplomatic lies they tell, Venus in Libra is a fair and considerate lover. Venus in Libra loves beauty, which is really balance and harmony. Venus in Libra will court you by taking you to admire beauty in some form, whether it’s theater, music, or any art.

Wherever you go together, they will exhibit graceful manners. They can be so fair and balanced about the relationship that it can feel more like a business partnership. They’ll want to split everything down the middle. They will make sure you do your share of the housework, bill-paying, date-planning, errands, etc. Everything must be 50/50. Libra is “the relationship sign” but Venus in Libra needs peace, tranquility, and harmony more than intimacy. In the Libra lover’s defense, they find it extremely difficult to make up their mind. They avoid giving direct answers because they’re always weighing their options, seeing both sides of every issue (what makes them great politicians and diplomats). Some celebrities with Venus in Libra include Bill Clinton, Charlie Sheen, Richard Gere, Lisa Bonet, Pablo Picasso, Sean Connery...

How to Love Venus in Libra ?

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To make your Venus lover feel loved, be light and friendly with them. Pleasing Venus in Libra involves treating them kindly and fairly. They love to share everything with you, so let them. Foreplay for them can be mental -- they love to communicate with you about the relationship. Don’t be messy with your emotions. Don’t be upset with them when they can’t make up their mind. Understand that they see both sides of an issue, and help them decide by talking things out. They do like to talk things out. They want a relationship based on equal sharing and cooperation. Be fair with them; never take unfair advantage of them because they will not stand for it. Don’t be loud or harsh with them. For enjoyment and pleasure, take them to beautiful places, fine museums, and high class restaurants. Dress with style when you go out with them. They want to be surrounded by beauty. Give them roses and fine perfumes as gifts. At home, they need a calm and peaceful environment. They appreciate dim lighting, scented candles, and fancy silverware. If you clean their home, they may keep your around just for that. If you’re willing to commit your equal share in this partnership, you’ll be rewarded with a fair lover who always looks good in pictures.

Female: The Venus in Libra woman will try to impress you with her kindness, even handedness, and willingness to make your relationship work. Venus in Libra lady will feel unloved if people are not pleasant to her and considerate of her needs. She is attracted to people who have a certain refinement and grace and a rather quiet good taste - she dislike anything outrageous. It is especially important to her to be involved in a love relationship at all times. For her, love make the world go 'round, and she is not complete without a lover.

Male: The Venus in Libra man is turned on by beautiful women. Even if he’s in a committed relationship, a pretty face gets him every time. He’s romantically attracted to beauty in all its forms. He is a lover, but not necessarily a faithful one. It’s possible for a Venus in Libra man to maintain two long-term relationships, simultaneously. His female ideal is the 'perfect lady', delicate, sweet-tempered, refined, intelligent: she never pumps her own gasoline, perspires or swears. He is turned off by strong-minded, independent women or those who are highly competitive - in business or private life. He is looking for a woman who will complement him, not one who is fully-formed in herself.

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