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Venus in Gemini

Gemini in Love

Venus in Gemini

This position of Venus indicates a surface vivaciousness in your personality and actions. You are able to put on a good show, thereby attracting and fooling your audience into thinking there is more depth to your feelings than actually is there. You cover a lot of territory, displaying your vast experience to advantage.

However, when you fool other people you fool yourself as well. As Venus progresses into another sign or house you may also begin to feel a lack of depth. You may feel that you have missed much that life has to offer by not sinking more deeply into situations you have been able to skip lightly over.

It will help if your Sun occupies one of the adjoining signs. Although this will only make you more aware of the real situation. You will have to make up for what this innate position of Venus grants you. As each of the transits touch this position you will learn to adjust what you really want out of life from your accumulated experience.

Very flirtatious and may love a couple of people simultaneously (I would even dare to say that the love to both may be genuine). Venus in Gemini attracts good looking mercurian women that come in and out of your life very fast. May have a bit of a shallow taste.

Also really loves verbal communication, Venus in Gemini really enjoys a good chat and a display of intelligence. Loves erotic text messaging and phone calls, as well as dirty talking. And will have plenty of tricks up their sleeves. May indicate bisexuality, as well as Mars in Gemini.

If you want to capture the heart of someone with this placement, you need to be able to talk about everything and have well rounded knowledge. You can also stimulate them by sharing random links, jokes or trivia with them.

And yes, Venus in Gemini really loves a good laugh. Artistically speaking, it communicates beautifully as a poet or a vocalist. If your partner is a Venus in Gemini, try to tolerate some innocent flirting (as annoying as it can get), but be wary if you want a traditional commitment as this placement is also prone to “cheating”.

Sharp, bright wit and sparkle and a boundless curiosity about life and other people, are your trademarks. You love fashion -and anything that glitters – and would do well in the media. No one is more fun to be with, but others can find it tricky to keep up. Gemini is often called the zodiac’s butterfly, which means that when it comes to love, you can find it hard to settle for one person.
Venus in Gemini is friendly and warm-hearted, but because you can, and do, charm anyone you choose to, others see you as flirtatious, even fickle. Well, you can be, but then you really cannot help it, as a thirst for knowledge and experience is what drives you.

You like to get to know as many people as you can. And you can be prone to wild enthusiasms for people you soon tire of. Anyone who fails to interest or amuse you is a non-starter, either as a friend or lover. But when you find someone who understands your need for freedom – and who is happy to spend half the night up talking – you will give them everything you’ve got. Even when you fall for someone, domestic bliss, (not to mention household chores), is not your thing. But then, you are the life and soul of the party, so what can they expect?

Love and Relating for Venus in Gemini person- Venus in Gemini Compatibility

Remember that someone may show strong Gemini or Taurus traits, perhaps because they have the Moon or Venus here, but have the Sun in quite another zodiac sign.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with fiery, pioneering Aries:
Whirlwind meets tornado: their impulsive and spontaneous nature puts them on your wavelength, but maintaining the fast tempo could prove tricky.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with down to earth and loyal Taurus:
At first you are attracted by their sensuous, voluptuous nature, but it could prove too much of a good thing, and you can find them fixed and slow.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with quick-witted, restless Gemini:
You both like to have loads of fun. Great communication and mental rapport, but hard to unwind and find the time to spend alone together!

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with sensitive, maternal Cancer:
You like to go out. They like to stay in. So not much contact, and you can find them clingy, although you could appreciate their protective, caring nature.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with dramatic and romantic Leo:
A dynamic combination. You are both extroverts, but you could find them just a bit too hot to handle- and too interested in their own image.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with cool, realistic Virgo:
They can earth you- and spend hours talking. Even if you find them a bit fussy, look on the bright side- they can do the housework!

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with romantic and sophisticated Libra:
Orchids, candlelight, romance, you’ll love their, elegance and charm- and soft sweet-talk- but is it you, or Love, they are in love with?

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with intense, passionate Scorpio:
They are loyal, passionate and sultry : watch your step, and don’t get in too deep with them unless you really mean it, or you could regret it.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with adventurous, idealistic Sagittarius:
They are even more adventurous than you are, both in life and love. You can reach the wilder shores of almost anywhere with them, but will it last?

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with reserved and loyal Capricorn:
They are rock-solid- and reserved, which could be a relief, as you like to keep deep feelings at arm’s length- but don’t expect too much frivolity and fun.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with idealistic and free-thinking Aquarius:
You like their laid-back, unconventional approach, and you respect each others’ need for space and freedom. A chance to find a real soul-mate.

Venus in Gemini Compatibility with sensitive and dreamy Pisces:
You could find them far too emotional- and sentimental- for your liking, but their sympathy could soothe and comfort you when you are stressed.

Venus in Gemini lover is the charmer of the zodiac. This is the most emotionally-detached sign of the zodiac. Gemini is the first air sign and, like air, comes and goes as it pleases. Falling in love isn’t hard for Venus in Gemini. If they love you, they’ll show it lightly and playfully; no heavy emotional displays or extravagant gifts. For Venus in Gemini, friendship will be a vital component of love. They are really looking for a companion - someone they enjoy talking to and with whom they can share their ideas and interests. They like to remain friends with all of their past lovers, they cannot bear to end friendships. Friendships mean more to them than romances. Shakespeare was born with Venus in Gemini and was of course able to describe the feelings of Romeo and Juliet down to its last detail. Venus in Gemini people will try to win over the object of their affection with witty conversation, displaying just how much they "know", and demonstrating their diverse interests.

They are hard to pin down, and they resist relationships that promise to become too "comfortable". In love, their tastes change often, and it can be hard to know what to expect from one day to the next. The Venus in Gemini likes a lover who is a little different each time. Time spent with your Gemini lover will be exciting and invigorating. The Gemini need for variety is not so much sexual as it is a need for mental stimulation. The Gemini lover never really means any harm; these are not fighters like Aries, nor manipulators like Scorpio. They may like to talk during sex. They can feel intimately close with both sexes. But regardless of looks, intelligence and quick wit is what turns them on. Some celebrities with Venus in Aries include Robert Pattinson, Russell Crowe, Sandra Bullock, Al Pacino, Kylie Minogue, Megan Fox, President JFK, Naomi Campbell and Harrison Ford.

How to Love Venus in Gemini ?

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To make your Gemini lover feel loved, be a listener. They need immediate sounding boards for all of their thoughts. If you do this for them, they will feel very close to you. But you must also be talkative, or else they will get bored and leave you. Provide mental stimulation by asking them lots of questions about any subject. Be peppy and outgoing. They need variety, so be interesting. If you have a split personality, even better. To keep a Gemini happy you must allow them freedom to come and go as they please. If you try to cage them in at all, they will disappear. Never mention “commitment” or “marriage” because they will disappear. Don’t be boring, wanting to stay home all the time, because they will leave you. If you provide enough freedom, mental stimulation, and forgiveness, your Gemini lover will always return to you after flying off for a bit. Pleasing Venus in Gemini involves supporting their need for fun and variety, showing interest in their brainpower and knowledge, and giving them space for friends and activities outside of the relationship. Let them know just how much fun you have with them.

Female: This woman needs a man who is her intellectual superior. If you are in love with a Venus-in-Gemini woman, you should exert yourself to be amusing! She needs for you to be very open in the way you communicate with her, and so it’s fine to tell her every little thing that goes through your mind. You can also use words to get her into an erotic mood, but choose them carefully. Women with Venus in Gemini are often changeable in their sympathy. They are changeable, mysterious and, at the same time, are diplomatic and independent. She is naturally friendly and knows how to exploit her charms in order to attract patrons and benefactors. She is in need for constant stimulation which keeps her on the move, often away from deepening bonds.

Male: The male Gemini lover is probably the only male in the zodiac that is not attracted to a person based on their looks. The Venus in Gemini male is attracted to women who are intelligent and clever. He must connect with a woman on a mental level before physical desire takes place. He wants a smart, intellectual lover who knows how to carry on a decent conversation. The Venus in Gemini male truly enjoys the flirtation and mind games that take place during the courtship stage of a relationship. He also tends to be attracted to average-looking women who are witty and interesting, rather than gorgeous females who have nothing to talk about. A woman who can keep him guessing is particularly attractive. His biggest fear is boredom, so he tends to also find complex women a turn on.

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Venus in Cancer

Cancer in Love

Venus in Cancer

This position of Venus grants a very sensitive, attractive, subtle and emotional love nature. You would like to just sit and ooze attraction to pull others to you from a rather safe secluded place.

Venus is very powerful in this position. The affections are liquefied and magnetic. The individual attracts what is wanted rather than aggressively seeking to obtain the desires of the heart. With this position, you tend to be a clinging vine interested primarily in home and children.

Your affections are reserved for those close to you, preferably within your own home circle. You are loyal, seductive and demonstrable. Your sensitivity produces an interest in the occult and psychic abilities. This involves you in foggy areas where your imagination plays a large role. It would lend glamour to acting.

Very loving and nurturing, but prone to smother and parent their significant others too much which can be a turn off, so be careful! This is a sweet placement, may be a talented cook and show creativity through cooking and home decoration, as well as art and music as it is a great outlet for their emotional vulnerability.

Very nostalgic and has an old and traditional taste. Loyal and loves family life. Be careful of attracting dependent people! Venus in cancer people remember all the fond little details of their lovers and time spent with them, incredibly loyal as well.

You also are very sensitive and moody. Try not to be too clingy with your lovers and give them space.At the same time, try to avoid clingy types that would feed on your sympathy! The women in your life are very protective and mother like, truly feminine and comforting.

Venus in Cancer is the big sentimental baby of the zodiac. Cancer is the first water sign, and Venus in Cancer is a very emotional lover. They express affection sensitively, comfortingly, protectively, and tenaciously. They care about your feelings and they will not give up showing it. Venus in Cancer will embrace you tightly as they express their love with a tear in their eye. The first priority for Venus in Cancer is to have a family. They need to nurture and be nurtured in order to be comfortable with life. Cancer lovers are a bit psychic and receptive; they can tell when you feel sad. They will become overly-protective of you, hardening right up and lashing out at anyone who threatens you. Venus in Cancer reflects your moods. But it will take some time before they let you get that close to them. Cancer lovers are extremely self-protective. Even if they like you, they will wait until they feel safe and sure of your affection.

Their emotions swing back and forth just like the Moon’s phases (the Moon rules the sign of Cancer). They may be happy that you cooked a lovely meal for them, and then give you the silent treatment because you have to go to work. Cancer lovers are masters of the silent treatment. They can also be stingy and mean. Sometimes their moodiness and overly self-protective feelings can become so extreme as to make it impossible to have a relationship with them. Venus in Cancer remind us that love is a great nurturing force, one that binds relationships by the care that we give to one another. Some celebrities with Venus in Aries include President Barack Obama, Dustin Hoffman, Ben Affleck, Cameron Diaz, Lenny Kravitz, Keanu Reeves, Christian Slater, Willem Dafoe and Angelina Jolie.

How to Love Venus in Cancer ?

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Pleasing Venus in Cancer involve slots of snuggling and sentimentality. To make Venus in Cancer feel loved, you must become a part of their family. If you become best friends with his mother, he will love you. “Mother” him, be protective of him, cook for him, and he will love you. Venus in Cancer absolutely loves a home-cooked meal. Wear an apron when you cook, whether you’re male or female. They love to stay home. If you’re constantly dragging them out of the house for exciting dates, they will think you don’t love them. Sit with them on the couch with a tub of ice cream watching the latest romance movie, and they’ll feel loved. Never invite extra people over without consulting them. They prefer to be alone with you. They are shy in large groups; they always prefer small, close-knit groups. Venus in Cancer loves to feel needed. Be dependent on them. Be sincere with your feelings and very sensitive to their feelings. If you’re a woman, dress pretty, not sexy. Dress like a grandmother, with soft, flowery dresses to attract a Cancer man. Always appear pretty, natural, and ladylike. If all else fails, have their baby. Venus in Cancer is probably the only zodiac sign who cannot resist the parent of their child.

Female: The Venus in Cancer woman has a sensitive attunement to nature and natural law, along with a great affinity for environmental beauty. She want a safe, solid relationship. She feels instinctively that good food and domestic felicity keep the conjugal flame glowing, and seeks through her skill in anticipating the wishes of her mate to attach him to her by the firm strands of requited affection. Venus in Cancer woman desires and needs very strong touch, holding and kissing in order to feel sexually secure and trusting. Love for her is something that is very dependent upon home, family and security, no matter how wild or adventurous she may like to think she is.

Male: He is intuitive, sensitive, warm and affectionate, with a natural sense of feeling for all that is occurring around him. This, along with his deep understanding of loyalty and devotion, makes him the natural emotional center of his family. He provides the nostalgic memories of tender moments from the past and the sincere warmth which gives a sense of continuity to those close to him. His needs are basic: shelter, love, protection, the best for his loved ones. His standards are high, but the drive, fire and ambition to obtain his desires often is lacking. Venusian Cancerian man want to be petted, cherished, and admired for his good qualities. He long for peace and quiet in his home sphere, where he make loyal, contented partner. He is competent cook and excel in the domestic arts. The Venus in Cancer male is attracted to naturally large breasts, never fake ones. He prefers the soft, natural, full, motherly look. A full-figured, even slightly over-weight, woman attracts him more than a thin, athletic woman.

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Venus in Virgo

Virgo in Love

Venus in Virgo

This position of Venus is much maligned because it causes you to be suspicious of the love nature that the world has idolized to their detriment.

This position of Venus points to the true nature of love. Since the world or humanity at large is still very unwilling to recognize true love, these people must use this influence to protect themselves from falling into the traps the rest of the world says would be their salvation.

Therefore, you with this position present a very distorted picture of what you would prefer to be expressing. You are unable to buy an advertised love which says don’t think just feel. You are continually pointing out what is wrong with those you love. They would prefer for you to love them for their unevolved selves alone. Who gets the blame? You do.

This vicious circle is indeed difficult to break out of. If no one will accept the best that you have to offer you will oblige them by giving them a very inadequate facsimile of what they are asking for.

Many of you just never marry or ever find anyone you can be happy with. It is my belief that all this is changing. When excessive sex-obsessed-with-technique runs its course and humanity as a whole begins to talk about the closeness of a relationship, understanding, real caring, affection being located in the bowels, you will have your day.

“Falling in love” is indeed dangerous. You have sense enough to realize that. When the world has truly learned to accept that fact the evaluation of Virgo will emerge from the fog in a truly beneficial way. This position of Venus is in the forefront of that threshold.

Venus in Virgo is at fall here because these individuals are very prude and shy, and may mix between the concept of cleanliness and sexuality, perceiving the latter as dirty, and messy.

They will express their love by being very useful around the house and doing very subtle forms of service, so if you have a lover with such placement, keep your eyes open for such sublimity and be appreciative.T o Venus in Virgo, it’s the useful little things that matter. Encouragement and appreciation may help in making them less shy. Also you may want to take it extra easy on the intimacy with them, and be understanding. Once they are comfortable, you will be surprised. If you have Venus in Virgo you will also show artistic craftsmanship such as jewellery design, sculpting/carving, etc.

Venus in Virgo - Venus in Virgo is a modest, shy lover. They express love by being helpful, serving you, and criticizing you. While they are humble, they are also conscientious. They feel it absolutely necessary to call out your mistakes when they catch them. This will happen often since they have an extremely high attention for detail. Venus in Virgo is endowed with exceptional analytical skills. But remember, that is how they show that they love you. If they stop criticizing, they have stopped caring. Self-improvement is the goal for Venus in Virgo. They strive to be perfect in every area of their life, but particularly in the areas of health, diet, and work ethics. When one loves you, they add you to their self-improvement check-list. Virgo is one of the most helpful signs in the zodiac. Your Virgo lover will not simply tell you that you need to do more cardio exercise; they will wake up at 5am to jog with you every morning. They will not just tell you that your home is a mess; they will clean it for you.

For a Virgo, serving others actually provides them emotional satisfaction. They do it because it makes them feel good. In bed with a Virgo lover, prepare to be analyzed and pleased from head to toe. They will take their time exploring every nook and cranny on your body until they find your “spot.” This is a thorough lover. Most problems with a Virgo lover can be worked out if you talk with them since they are always up for self-improvement. Venus in Virgo can suffer through a long, lonely time without a partner simply because they find too many flaws with each prospect. Some Virgos are seriously waiting for a perfect person. Virgo is a mutable sign, and it’s difficult to pin them down. They don’t begin relationships with just anybody. If a Venus in Virgo loves you, either you have perfect qualities that they admire, or you are so screwed up that it has become their mission to fix you. Some celebrities with Venus in Virgo include John Lennon, Jennifer Lopez, Kevin Spacey, Julia Roberts and Robert de Niro.

How to Love Venus in Virgo ?

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To make your Virgo lover feel loved, make them feel useful to you. They need to feel useful to feel good about themselves. Pleasing Venus in Virgo involves showing you appreciate them for all the little things they do -- and they do a lot. Let them help you with everything, whether its homework, housework, running errands, etc. Appreciate their self-improvement plan for your life. But more than appreciation, they want to see tangible results that their advice is working on you. They will feel loved if you’re all excited about their advice. Go vegetarian, go vegan, cut out caffeine, sign up for a fitness class, do whatever they advise you to do. Let your Virgo lover know that they are already as close to perfect as a human can be. Accept their criticism they way you would accept it from a grandparent, knowing that they love you and mean it for your own good. Don’t be harsh with them; they will back down and you may lose them. Be kind and try to be as perfect as possible. Your Virgo lover will only be comfortable with you if you are logical, practical, and super clean. Make your decisions using logic. For fun, play analytical puzzle games. They love exercising their minds by analyzing things. Don’t eat meals in your car, do carry around sanitizer, keep your kitchen spotless, always wear a bib, that kind of thing. Whatever you do, don’t take advantage of these helpful, serving souls. You will be rewarded with a near-perfect lover who is also a mentor and a best friend for life.

Female: The Venus in Virgo lady always looks smart, and as near perfect as one can be. She is quite sensitive in love, even insecure - and this reserved, loner-like quality is part of her appeal. She prefer to play it safe in her relationships, and she need to be confident that you like her before she make a move. Venus in Virgo woman is often extremely romantic, and yearns for perfection in the one she loves. Women with this Venus placement in their birth charts pride themselves on being neat, well-organized, efficient and dependable. Being able to take care of the many details of life makes you feel good about yourself as a woman.

Male: The Venus in Virgo male is turned on by clean, hygienic, nerdy women. He prefers modest, humble, nice girls, but he can also get turned on by a bad girl in a “school girl” outfit with glasses. Men with Venus in Virgo are most attracted to women who are unassuming, unpretentious, even a little shy. Neatness is more important to you than beauty in a partner, and you're turned off instantly by unkempt hair and dirty fingernails. Your ideal partner is conscientious, dependable, intelligent, modest and practical

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Venus in Libra

Libra in Love

Venus in Libra:

High artistic and aesthetic taste, might as well be an artist themselves. This is a good placement as they tend to be strategic and very well balanced and detached in love matters. To them, love is a strategy game. Of course to the cool Venus in libra everything moves slowly and carefully, with great detachment, often leaving their lovers boiling with anticipation. It is no wonder that librans have captured so many hearts then! They can be a designer or an architect, something that deals with intellectual and higher aesthetics.

This position for Venus is becoming more and more uncomfortable as Libra’s influence is evolving. It is worse if it accompanies a Libra Sun. In this case you are blinded by a desire for perfection.

In any case, you are very sensitive, particularly where relationships are involved. It means that you have extreme difficulty in dealing with any ugliness or pollution which really abounds at the present time. You want to make everything beautiful and harmonious but do not have the strength to deal with things that need to be dealt with in a very positive and powerful manner.

You have difficulty believing anything bad about anyone. When you are convinced of anyone’s incorrigibleness, you simply want to eliminate that person from your environment rather that dealing with the realities of the situation. This is very hard on the kidneys. There are just too many things you are unable to fix or even do anything about.

Venus in Libra is a very romantic sign but not in a very emotional way. Libra is an air sign. They enjoy sharing, partnerships and being in love is very important for them. Venus in Libra absolutely needs to be in a committed relationship, but can be emotionally detached. They express affection lightly, not dramatically or emotionally. When a Venus in Libra loves you, they will treat you with fairness, consideration, and gentleness. This lover is graceful, beautiful, and diplomatic. But diplomatic simply means that they will tell you whatever you want to hear. Besides the little white diplomatic lies they tell, Venus in Libra is a fair and considerate lover. Venus in Libra loves beauty, which is really balance and harmony. Venus in Libra will court you by taking you to admire beauty in some form, whether it’s theater, music, or any art.

Wherever you go together, they will exhibit graceful manners. They can be so fair and balanced about the relationship that it can feel more like a business partnership. They’ll want to split everything down the middle. They will make sure you do your share of the housework, bill-paying, date-planning, errands, etc. Everything must be 50/50. Libra is “the relationship sign” but Venus in Libra needs peace, tranquility, and harmony more than intimacy. In the Libra lover’s defense, they find it extremely difficult to make up their mind. They avoid giving direct answers because they’re always weighing their options, seeing both sides of every issue (what makes them great politicians and diplomats). Some celebrities with Venus in Libra include Bill Clinton, Charlie Sheen, Richard Gere, Lisa Bonet, Pablo Picasso, Sean Connery...

How to Love Venus in Libra ?

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To make your Venus lover feel loved, be light and friendly with them. Pleasing Venus in Libra involves treating them kindly and fairly. They love to share everything with you, so let them. Foreplay for them can be mental -- they love to communicate with you about the relationship. Don’t be messy with your emotions. Don’t be upset with them when they can’t make up their mind. Understand that they see both sides of an issue, and help them decide by talking things out. They do like to talk things out. They want a relationship based on equal sharing and cooperation. Be fair with them; never take unfair advantage of them because they will not stand for it. Don’t be loud or harsh with them. For enjoyment and pleasure, take them to beautiful places, fine museums, and high class restaurants. Dress with style when you go out with them. They want to be surrounded by beauty. Give them roses and fine perfumes as gifts. At home, they need a calm and peaceful environment. They appreciate dim lighting, scented candles, and fancy silverware. If you clean their home, they may keep your around just for that. If you’re willing to commit your equal share in this partnership, you’ll be rewarded with a fair lover who always looks good in pictures.

Female: The Venus in Libra woman will try to impress you with her kindness, even handedness, and willingness to make your relationship work. Venus in Libra lady will feel unloved if people are not pleasant to her and considerate of her needs. She is attracted to people who have a certain refinement and grace and a rather quiet good taste - she dislike anything outrageous. It is especially important to her to be involved in a love relationship at all times. For her, love make the world go 'round, and she is not complete without a lover.

Male: The Venus in Libra man is turned on by beautiful women. Even if he’s in a committed relationship, a pretty face gets him every time. He’s romantically attracted to beauty in all its forms. He is a lover, but not necessarily a faithful one. It’s possible for a Venus in Libra man to maintain two long-term relationships, simultaneously. His female ideal is the 'perfect lady', delicate, sweet-tempered, refined, intelligent: she never pumps her own gasoline, perspires or swears. He is turned off by strong-minded, independent women or those who are highly competitive - in business or private life. He is looking for a woman who will complement him, not one who is fully-formed in herself.

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Venus in Scorpio

Scorpio in Love

Venus in Scorpio:

Venus in Scorpio is do or die. I’ve seen both saints and harlots with this placement, and seen the same person transform from one to the other. Because it is the all or nothing. People with Venus in scorpio may stay single for years looking for the perfect one, and then give them their pure devotion and loyality.

On the other hand, they may use the secretive Scorpio energy to lurk in very murky waters of prostitution and its many cousins, maintaining a surprisingly clean and innocent facade.

In both cases, this is a very possessive placement and takes no BS, once it smells betrayal or a subtle hurtful comment, it will never forget and hell will break loose. But at the same time, its very sexual and alluring with great magnetic charm. Many dark artists and religious fanatics have this placement! May also have a twisted and even kinky taste, often with a preference to things that are taboo.

This position of Venus is difficult at best. It is perhaps least hazardous when it accompanies a Scorpio or Eighth House Sun, although there are also difficulties with this position.

If the Sun is also in Scorpio you have more self direction and control with this position of Venus. You are also dependent on a strong measure of self-control. It is up to you to set your own standards, for better or for worse. Partnerships become more difficult.

If your Sun is in one of the other possible signs (Virgo, the Sixth House; Libra, the Seventh House; Sagittarius, the Ninth House; Capricorn, the Tenth House) you will find it extremely difficult to control and express your desires, passions and affections in a way that brings you satisfaction and respect. Libra is particularly vulnerable with its ruler in Scorpio. Scorpio is the sign of transformation. Venus’ attractive power is oriented toward possession, hanging on to and owning what you possess, even people.

This is the irresistible force meeting the immovable object. Something has to give. Life itself depends on meeting this challenge. Venus holds it’s greatest sway over the opposite sign Taurus. In Scorpio, it must bend adapt and adjust it’s nature to transcend the methods which have brought it this far. There must be a purpose to the accumulation of wealth and power. This is the real test of value. A selfish purpose means death to the individual. Proper distribution is the challenge. Here it becomes a life and death matter to know where to let go to proper advantage. Some people will do this very well. Others will destroy not only others but themselves rather than live and let live.

Venus in Scorpio is probably the most emotionally intense and passionate sign of the Zodiac. It is also the most mysterious and its power is most obvious in the night time. In love, Venus in Scorpio like to have long term relationships and have difficulty coping with breakups because they get so deeply involved. Those born with their Venus in Scorpio will be intensely romantic, direct and determined. Their strong feelings can sometimes cross the line into jealousy and possessiveness. They are sexually magnetic in a very physical way. Their intensity and passion combine with dedication and dominance to create a person who requires their partner to put it all on the line as they will. If they turn their attention towards a potential mate, all of their physical, mental and emotional energies will be placed behind that task.

Venus in Scorpio loves mystery and knows that there's a purpose for his strong sexual magnetism. Venus in Scorpio need to feel empowered can manifest in manipulation and controlling behaviour and his hearty sexual appetite can degenerate into promiscuity and sex addiction. This people needs a mate who appreciates and encourages his passion and intensity. The best insurance against the shadow side is a Venus-in-Scorpio who is secure and proud of his special gifts: magnetism, mystical sense of magic, ability to feel deeply and his acute sensitivity to others. Very sexually-oriented, Venus in Scorpio needs a partner who is as passionate about life -- and all its mysteries -- as he is! Famous Celebrity with Venus in Scorpio: Leonardo DiCaprio, Steven Spielberg, Bill Gates, Demi Moore, Jean-Claude Van Damme, Jodie Foster and Christopher Reeve.

How to Love Venus in Scorpio?

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Pleasing Venus in Scorpio involves demonstrating your complete commitment and loyalty to them. Those with their Venus in Scorpio need a partner that can be partially submissive while standing their ground against further attempts to dominate them. If you can, and they're deserving, relinquish some of the control in the relationship. Let them feel they own you, without taking it to extremes. Remember, though, that some Venus in Scorpio lovers can and will take advantage of you on a subtle level, if only to keep you all to themselves. Let them have their secrets and their silences. It can be a tricky tightrope to walk but can be worth it. Everything the Scorpio does is rooted in deep, almost instinctual emotions that they may be able to mask but they can't subdue. If a partner is able to keep the dark aspects of this personality at bay, the lighter ones will make them feel like the most important person in the universe.

Female: No-one takes love and relationships more seriously than Venus in Scorpio woman do. She is seeking nothing less than complete merger with a partner - body, mind and spirit. Women with Venus in Scorpio project a powerful sensuality and magnetism that can be both enticing and intimidating. There is something mysterious about she that makes her irresistible to many men, even if she is not especially pretty. Extremely emotional, she realize how strong her feelings are and how deeply she can be hurt if a love affair doesn't work out; therefore, she is sceptical and cautious about getting involved. Once she commit herself in love, however, she do so totally and permanently.

Male: Venus in Scorpio man has a capacity to love deeply, though his intense feelings may be difficult to express. At times, his love can lead him into painful emotional crises. With Venus in Scorpio, there will be a tendency to go to extremes in love relationships. In many ways, he thrive on crisis, as he need the intensity it brings. What he cannot stand is bland nothingness. Men with this planetary position are most interested in women who are dark, intense, mysterious and obviously sexual, the kind you wouldn't think of taking home to meet your mother. Love is always sexual for him, and he can take his partners to some deep and dark places in their search for the depth of union he crave.

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Venus in Sagittarius

Sagittarius in Love

Venus in Sagittarius:

Venus in Sagittarius loves lighthearted, casual romance, just like its Gemini counterpart. Great curiosity and love for other cultures, and may very well have an eye for exotic partners from other countries. Influential women in your environment are foreigners and romance is always linked with getaways and travel, one may lead to another.

The cool thing about this placement is that its very upfront and honest about what it wants, so there’s not much ambiguity in a relationship. But the problem is that long distance relationships and their difficulties are very likely here, and there is also the shadow of making someone fall for you then you leave them for another adventure in another place. Please don’t do that! Funny thing is, you can be the one who falls for people on the move.

This position increases prodigality and a strong desire for freedom to do your own thing. There is likely to be much sex appeal and attractiveness generally, with little or no willingness to be restricted or confined. It increases the luck factor particularly in the accumulation of money and liquid assets. Almost everything comes a little too easy.

The position of the Sun is very important here also.

If the Sun is in either Eighth House Scorpio or Ninth House Capricorn, there is much more stability and an ability to use charm for practical purposes without becoming deeply emotionally involved.
If the Sun is in either Seventh House Libra, Ninth House Sagittarius or Eleventh House Aquarius, the flirtatious, light hearted, easy going, devil may care, freedom loving qualities are most obvious.
Conjunct your Sagittarius Sun you love your own company best and are spoiled by the attentions of others. In any case, this is a bird on the wing which dies in captivity. Your affections are caught up by intangible far-out concepts which must be fed a steady diet without the often expected result of loyalty, devotion and commitment. With this position you are in love with life and personal freedom. Only those who share these interests can hope to keep you company along the way without uncomfortable restrictions.

Venus in Sagittarius idealizes love, making it more of the mind than of the senses. Such devotion may not have great depths of passion but it sparkles like a star in the distant heavens, as though to say, ‘Fix your gaze on me and I will bring you all you desire’. Venus in Sagittarius can be quite flirtatious and seem to have a playboy-playgirl quality about them, and are usually quite idealistic in love. Those with Venus in Sagittarius are drawn to foreigners and those who are philosophical and travel a lot. Venus in Sagittarius falls in and out of love quite fast. Venus in Sagittarius has an adventurous heart in love, seeking to explore the unknown and learn about new customs, cultures and behaviours. Their ideas and beliefs are extremely important to them. If a relationship is going to even stand a slight chance of lasting, they will need a partner that shares their views on the issues of the world- or at least someone that is willing to convert to those beliefs.

If they shares a similar belief system or religion with their partner, this helps them to stay committed, giving them union meaning and a sense of purpose. Independent, it is hard for them to be tied to a relationship that might hamper their freedom. If they are to be in a relationship, it has to start slow and build up over time. Even then, there’s a chance this person will be uncomfortable once the turn has been made into more serious territory. They may grow nervous and turn an eye towards the door once they begin to feel restricted. Even if they seem happy, they may be drawing up exit strategies in the back of their mind. Celebrities with Venus in Sagittarius: Jane Fonda, Whoopi Goldberg, Tina Turner, Christina Aguilera, David Bowie, Kevin Costner. John Malkovich, Gerard Depardieu, Kim Basinger...

How to Love Venus in Sagittarius?

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Pleasing Venus in Sagittarius involves allowing them lots of room in the relationship to grow. Avoid getting stuck in a rut, and understand their need to move on. Learn to laugh, but take their rants and raves seriously. Avoid criticizing their beliefs, join them in debates, and philosophize along with them. When they feel the need for more experience, join them! Learn to look past their clumsiness with you and your feelings, and avoid cornering them or forcing them to commit. Play, travel, soaking up the nightlife, discussing world cultures -- these things bond you to a partner-in-adventure.

Female: Women with Venus in Sagittarius pride themselves on their sense of humor, gregariousness and cheerful dispositions. It is important to her to be well-liked and to have lots of friends and admirers. The more popular she is, the better she feel about herself as a woman. Her social calendar is often full because she is kind of a collector of friends and lovers. She is not into emotional drama, and will hightail it out of a heavy or over-analyzed relationship. It may take awhile before she commit to one person, and her experimental side means she will be curious about all things sexual. She will play the field a long time, as part of her overall quest for experience.

Male: Men with this planetary position are most attracted to active, vivacious, friendly and fun-loving women. No intense, possessive or highly emotional types need apply. He want a partner who's more of a buddy than a lover; someone with whom he can do things and share ideas and experiences. He admire knowledge and worldliness, and is fascinated by women who have done things and who know things that he does nor. Tall, slim, athletic women with long legs probably appeal to him most.

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Venus in Aquarius

Aquarius in Love

Venus in Aquarius:

Friendship is the most important relationship to these people and they may put it even before marriage, so your best bet is to befriend them before thinking of a relationship. And no restrains, please! This placement loves freedom and personal space. Whoever invented open relationships probably had Venus in Aquarius!

You have a unique taste in partners, usually in preference of the intellectual type. May attract very different, strange and unique people into your life. Women in your life tend to be androgynous, independent and kind of on the feminist side, blurring out gender boundaries, and also very intelligent.

This position grants a wealth of material abundance and ability with a need for someone to share and develop it with. These people tend to pile up both good ideas and material abundance but can’t be bothered attaching themselves to people who literally contaminate their freedom and genius ability. You prefer to, more or less, live in the wild, for fear you will be restricted from pursuing some flight of fancy by having to include someone else in your plans.

Most of the time, you fail to realize the benefits from relationships. In most cases, it is extremely difficult, if not impossible, to find someone who fits comfortably into your free wheeling routine. You really need a buddy not a sweetheart. Any romance will have to include a sharing of ideas and a curiosity compatible with your own. Platonic relationships are the only kind you will keep for any length of time. Even in this case, it must be unfettered.

With the right kind of relationship your real genius can be put to good use. In most cases, this doesn’t happen, largely due to cultural demands of responsibility. You must be able to write your own ticket with self-imposed discipline of a truly responsible nature in order to be successful.

Venus in Aquarius people try to impress you with their open-minded, future-thinking spirit. They can be unconventional both in their approach to love and also to who they are drawn to. They want you to see them as unique, rebellious, and a little provocative. They want you to acknowledge and appreciate that they don’t follow the beaten track in matters of the heart. Platonic relationships, creative relationships, group activities are great manifestations of this position of Venus. Emotional dramas, jealousy, exclusivity, are not in the make up of this sign. Friendship comes first. Falling in love with the eccentric, with the freaky, with the one that everyone else dislikes is characteristic of Venus in Aquarius.

The Venus in Aquarius individual has a love of freedom. He or she is often reluctant to make a commitment, however, expect complete loyalty once this person takes the plunge. The Venus in Aquarius person is attracted to idealists or rebels who stand out from the crowd. In love and relationship, the Aquarian energy cannot be denied its independence and prefers a counterpart who is also independent, forward-thinking and a little quirky. Intellectual stimulation is a must if you're to snag and hold on to a Venus in Aquarius. Venus in Aquarius wants you to love them for their intellect, and to admire their visions. Celebrities with Venus in Aquarius: Sharon Stone, Bruce Willis, Paris Hilton, Mel Gibson, Nicloas Cage...

How to Love Venus in Aquarius?

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Pleasing Venus in Aquarius involves letting them know just how interesting they are. Put up with their occasional need to act superior on an intellectual level -- they are very proud of their unique ideas and visions. Dream along with them, and don't fence them in. They need space and will happily return the favor, giving you lots of room to breathe and to be yourself. They like to choose their terms when involved in a relationship, and this can be challenging for a partner, as their terms can be changeable. With the exception of this quality, Venus in Aquarius people are some of the most unselfish people in love. They allow you freedom to be yourself, and are rarely clinging or controlling.

Female: A woman who keeps the Venus in Aquarius male guessing or is somewhat unconventional is particularly fascinating, while a woman who is too emotional or complicated is a complete turn off for him. She is looking for someone unique and reliable. She loves her freedom even more than Sagittarius. She can cultivate a friend into a lover; find one in the chat room or at a distance. She is looking for a lover who is also a friend, someone with whom you can share ideas and experiences. Women with Venus in Aquarius value their individuality highly, and have no intentions of letting a man tell them what to do. She consider herself everyone's equal, and is probably a supporter of women's rights. As far as she is concerned, a woman's place is anywhere but the home.

Male: Men with this planetary position find intelligent, free-spirited, unorthodox women most attractive. He is looking for someone who is different, unpredictable and eccentric, and who stands out in a crowd. Men who have Venus in Aquarius prefer women who are intelligent, independent and free-spirited. He needs a woman who is a good conversationalist and may become bored with a woman who never has anything to say. He insist on having lots of space and independence in his relationships, and can't bear possessiveness or jealousy. An open-ended arrangement that allows him to experiment freely would be more satisfactory than a conventional, monogamous partnership. He is easily bored and need plenty of excitement, stimulation and change in his love life.

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Venus in Capricorn

Capricorn in Love

Shy and reserved, but is romantic in its own little old school way. This placement is particularly nice for men as it makes them very marriage oriented, or at the very least in preference of serious relationships that LEAD to marriage. Very protective and loving, and a firm believer in practical romance, doing little gestures that show great respect. Very likely to “father” your partner if you are male, or attract fatherly figure lovers as a female.

May work too hard in good intentions to provide, so you need to remind yourself to take a break. You also may take love too seriously like a duty and forget to enjoy it. Very loyal as they will feel too guilty to cheat! If they do, it will be a last resort with alot of remorse. The women in your life are very hardworking and dead serious, motivating their men and children, as well as themselves, to work as hard as they can.

You are attracted strongly by the good (artistic, cultural, musical etc.) things in life. Yet you are reserved, cool, suspicious and imprisoned by doubts and fear of the unreliability of finesse and subtlety. Your need and desire for a full expression of love and affection is caught and restrained by an awareness of the need also for security and wisdom.

Venus here is proper, well structured to follow the letter of the law and protocol. Usually, there is a large discrepancy in age with a marriage partner. You do not blindly fall in love. You consider what is happening. You only truly love what you also respect. Marriage usually comes late in life and then only to someone you have checked out to be worthy of your trust. Once you have committed yourself you will follow every path necessary to maintain loyalty and devotion.

This position of Venus may dust off most of the glamour but it also keeps you from some of the painful morning afters also. It is possible in some cases that this position will be much less severe and perhaps provide only a very protective balance to something else in your chart. Be that as it may, this position can save you much pain. If you can deal consciously with this influence, like everything else it can be as helpful as you make it. The degree Venus is on may also give you clues as how best to use this influence.

Venus in Capricorn people are attracted to serious, goal-oriented lovers. They are cautious when it comes to love, yet have a hidden passionate side that is only revealed once he or she feels secure. More than anything, the Venus in Capricorn person wants stability and commitment. This person attracts the object of his or her desire by appearing mature and in control. Venus in Capricorn people will try to win your heart by displaying self-control, presence of mind, and responsible behavior. These lovers want you to know they are goal-oriented, witty, savvy, and controlled. They like some measure of predictability in their relationships as they are cautious in love.

If you like knowing where your relationship is headed, you'll be mighty pleased with Venus in Capricorn. Love is a serious business for Venus in any of the Earth signs; but for Venus in Capricorn it is deadly serious. These people will be extremely cautious about getting involved. They will take a long time getting to know a prospective partner and checking out his or her credentials. Unless the prognosis for the relationship is good, they would rather not embark. Ever-practical and achievement-orientated, they do not want to waste their time on something that is not going somewhere. Celebrities with Venus in Capricorn: Brad Pitt, Jim Carrey, Britney Spears, Ben Stiller, Justin Timberlake, Mel Gibson and Elvis Presley.

How to Love Venus in Capricorn?

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Pleasing Venus in Capricorn involves showing them you are practical and realistic. They want to impress you with the things they do. Be organized, practical, cautious, and dutiful. Prefer to work rather than play with them. Set Your goals for your career and for the future and speak with them about that. Take care of family and business, and be in charge of every situation. Make sure whatever you do is the right thing to do. Conform to set rules, touch all the bases, and follow the rules.

Female: Venus in Capricorn woman is traditional and appreciates societal values. She is ardent and sensual—but not in public, mind you. With age and practice, she only gets better. She is image-conscious and values her privacy. She is often your classic beauty, with legs that go on forever. Even in terms of looks, she seems to grow younger and more gorgeous with each passing year. Her ageless quality captures our attention. She does not see it herself—to her it is the make-up, the outfit, the perfect light, or your impaired vision. She works, supports, encourages, and makes you feel that you can conquer the world. She may capture the attention of an older man, who from there on out believes he has gone to heaven. She is also pragmatic and materialistic—there are things a gal needs to have. Her love ally is someone with experience and a clear grip on reality, and this someone is a responsible adult. A partner with self-direction, who demonstrates sparkling clarity and maturity, who is equally self-sufficient and reliable as she, sets the space for a lifelong bond.

Male: The Venus in Capricorn male is attracted to women who are successful and mature. He wants a woman who is somewhat formal or aloof and as concerned about status as he is. He is attracted to strong, “executive” type females and his mate must be competent and responsible. The Venus in Capricorn male hates to play games and expects the object of his affection to take the relationship as seriously as he does. In relationships, he is cautious, practical and traditional. He seek stability and permanence in both romantic and business partnerships. When it comes to matters of the heart, he is a realist, a pragmatist. . Your ideal woman looks as if she just stepped out of Town and Country magazine. Her public image is proper and dignified, but in private she's sensual and passionate. He also might be attracted to women who are older than him.

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