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Venus in Aquarius

Aquarius in Love

Venus in Aquarius:

Friendship is the most important relationship to these people and they may put it even before marriage, so your best bet is to befriend them before thinking of a relationship. And no restrains, please! This placement loves freedom and personal space. Whoever invented open relationships probably had Venus in Aquarius!

You have a unique taste in partners, usually in preference of the intellectual type. May attract very different, strange and unique people into your life. Women in your life tend to be androgynous, independent and kind of on the feminist side, blurring out gender boundaries, and also very intelligent.

This position grants a wealth of material abundance and ability with a need for someone to share and develop it with. These people tend to pile up both good ideas and material abundance but can’t be bothered attaching themselves to people who literally contaminate their freedom and genius ability. You prefer to, more or less, live in the wild, for fear you will be restricted from pursuing some flight of fancy by having to include someone else in your plans.

Most of the time, you fail to realize the benefits from relationships. In most cases, it is extremely difficult, if not impossible, to find someone who fits comfortably into your free wheeling routine. You really need a buddy not a sweetheart. Any romance will have to include a sharing of ideas and a curiosity compatible with your own. Platonic relationships are the only kind you will keep for any length of time. Even in this case, it must be unfettered.

With the right kind of relationship your real genius can be put to good use. In most cases, this doesn’t happen, largely due to cultural demands of responsibility. You must be able to write your own ticket with self-imposed discipline of a truly responsible nature in order to be successful.

Venus in Aquarius people try to impress you with their open-minded, future-thinking spirit. They can be unconventional both in their approach to love and also to who they are drawn to. They want you to see them as unique, rebellious, and a little provocative. They want you to acknowledge and appreciate that they don’t follow the beaten track in matters of the heart. Platonic relationships, creative relationships, group activities are great manifestations of this position of Venus. Emotional dramas, jealousy, exclusivity, are not in the make up of this sign. Friendship comes first. Falling in love with the eccentric, with the freaky, with the one that everyone else dislikes is characteristic of Venus in Aquarius.

The Venus in Aquarius individual has a love of freedom. He or she is often reluctant to make a commitment, however, expect complete loyalty once this person takes the plunge. The Venus in Aquarius person is attracted to idealists or rebels who stand out from the crowd. In love and relationship, the Aquarian energy cannot be denied its independence and prefers a counterpart who is also independent, forward-thinking and a little quirky. Intellectual stimulation is a must if you're to snag and hold on to a Venus in Aquarius. Venus in Aquarius wants you to love them for their intellect, and to admire their visions. Celebrities with Venus in Aquarius: Sharon Stone, Bruce Willis, Paris Hilton, Mel Gibson, Nicloas Cage...

How to Love Venus in Aquarius?

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Pleasing Venus in Aquarius involves letting them know just how interesting they are. Put up with their occasional need to act superior on an intellectual level -- they are very proud of their unique ideas and visions. Dream along with them, and don't fence them in. They need space and will happily return the favor, giving you lots of room to breathe and to be yourself. They like to choose their terms when involved in a relationship, and this can be challenging for a partner, as their terms can be changeable. With the exception of this quality, Venus in Aquarius people are some of the most unselfish people in love. They allow you freedom to be yourself, and are rarely clinging or controlling.

Female: A woman who keeps the Venus in Aquarius male guessing or is somewhat unconventional is particularly fascinating, while a woman who is too emotional or complicated is a complete turn off for him. She is looking for someone unique and reliable. She loves her freedom even more than Sagittarius. She can cultivate a friend into a lover; find one in the chat room or at a distance. She is looking for a lover who is also a friend, someone with whom you can share ideas and experiences. Women with Venus in Aquarius value their individuality highly, and have no intentions of letting a man tell them what to do. She consider herself everyone's equal, and is probably a supporter of women's rights. As far as she is concerned, a woman's place is anywhere but the home.

Male: Men with this planetary position find intelligent, free-spirited, unorthodox women most attractive. He is looking for someone who is different, unpredictable and eccentric, and who stands out in a crowd. Men who have Venus in Aquarius prefer women who are intelligent, independent and free-spirited. He needs a woman who is a good conversationalist and may become bored with a woman who never has anything to say. He insist on having lots of space and independence in his relationships, and can't bear possessiveness or jealousy. An open-ended arrangement that allows him to experiment freely would be more satisfactory than a conventional, monogamous partnership. He is easily bored and need plenty of excitement, stimulation and change in his love life.

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Venus in Capricorn

Capricorn in Love

Shy and reserved, but is romantic in its own little old school way. This placement is particularly nice for men as it makes them very marriage oriented, or at the very least in preference of serious relationships that LEAD to marriage. Very protective and loving, and a firm believer in practical romance, doing little gestures that show great respect. Very likely to “father” your partner if you are male, or attract fatherly figure lovers as a female.

May work too hard in good intentions to provide, so you need to remind yourself to take a break. You also may take love too seriously like a duty and forget to enjoy it. Very loyal as they will feel too guilty to cheat! If they do, it will be a last resort with alot of remorse. The women in your life are very hardworking and dead serious, motivating their men and children, as well as themselves, to work as hard as they can.

You are attracted strongly by the good (artistic, cultural, musical etc.) things in life. Yet you are reserved, cool, suspicious and imprisoned by doubts and fear of the unreliability of finesse and subtlety. Your need and desire for a full expression of love and affection is caught and restrained by an awareness of the need also for security and wisdom.

Venus here is proper, well structured to follow the letter of the law and protocol. Usually, there is a large discrepancy in age with a marriage partner. You do not blindly fall in love. You consider what is happening. You only truly love what you also respect. Marriage usually comes late in life and then only to someone you have checked out to be worthy of your trust. Once you have committed yourself you will follow every path necessary to maintain loyalty and devotion.

This position of Venus may dust off most of the glamour but it also keeps you from some of the painful morning afters also. It is possible in some cases that this position will be much less severe and perhaps provide only a very protective balance to something else in your chart. Be that as it may, this position can save you much pain. If you can deal consciously with this influence, like everything else it can be as helpful as you make it. The degree Venus is on may also give you clues as how best to use this influence.

Venus in Capricorn people are attracted to serious, goal-oriented lovers. They are cautious when it comes to love, yet have a hidden passionate side that is only revealed once he or she feels secure. More than anything, the Venus in Capricorn person wants stability and commitment. This person attracts the object of his or her desire by appearing mature and in control. Venus in Capricorn people will try to win your heart by displaying self-control, presence of mind, and responsible behavior. These lovers want you to know they are goal-oriented, witty, savvy, and controlled. They like some measure of predictability in their relationships as they are cautious in love.

If you like knowing where your relationship is headed, you'll be mighty pleased with Venus in Capricorn. Love is a serious business for Venus in any of the Earth signs; but for Venus in Capricorn it is deadly serious. These people will be extremely cautious about getting involved. They will take a long time getting to know a prospective partner and checking out his or her credentials. Unless the prognosis for the relationship is good, they would rather not embark. Ever-practical and achievement-orientated, they do not want to waste their time on something that is not going somewhere. Celebrities with Venus in Capricorn: Brad Pitt, Jim Carrey, Britney Spears, Ben Stiller, Justin Timberlake, Mel Gibson and Elvis Presley.

How to Love Venus in Capricorn?

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Pleasing Venus in Capricorn involves showing them you are practical and realistic. They want to impress you with the things they do. Be organized, practical, cautious, and dutiful. Prefer to work rather than play with them. Set Your goals for your career and for the future and speak with them about that. Take care of family and business, and be in charge of every situation. Make sure whatever you do is the right thing to do. Conform to set rules, touch all the bases, and follow the rules.

Female: Venus in Capricorn woman is traditional and appreciates societal values. She is ardent and sensual—but not in public, mind you. With age and practice, she only gets better. She is image-conscious and values her privacy. She is often your classic beauty, with legs that go on forever. Even in terms of looks, she seems to grow younger and more gorgeous with each passing year. Her ageless quality captures our attention. She does not see it herself—to her it is the make-up, the outfit, the perfect light, or your impaired vision. She works, supports, encourages, and makes you feel that you can conquer the world. She may capture the attention of an older man, who from there on out believes he has gone to heaven. She is also pragmatic and materialistic—there are things a gal needs to have. Her love ally is someone with experience and a clear grip on reality, and this someone is a responsible adult. A partner with self-direction, who demonstrates sparkling clarity and maturity, who is equally self-sufficient and reliable as she, sets the space for a lifelong bond.

Male: The Venus in Capricorn male is attracted to women who are successful and mature. He wants a woman who is somewhat formal or aloof and as concerned about status as he is. He is attracted to strong, “executive” type females and his mate must be competent and responsible. The Venus in Capricorn male hates to play games and expects the object of his affection to take the relationship as seriously as he does. In relationships, he is cautious, practical and traditional. He seek stability and permanence in both romantic and business partnerships. When it comes to matters of the heart, he is a realist, a pragmatist. . Your ideal woman looks as if she just stepped out of Town and Country magazine. Her public image is proper and dignified, but in private she's sensual and passionate. He also might be attracted to women who are older than him.

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