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Venus in Scorpio

Scorpio in Love

Venus in Scorpio:

Venus in Scorpio is do or die. I’ve seen both saints and harlots with this placement, and seen the same person transform from one to the other. Because it is the all or nothing. People with Venus in scorpio may stay single for years looking for the perfect one, and then give them their pure devotion and loyality.

On the other hand, they may use the secretive Scorpio energy to lurk in very murky waters of prostitution and its many cousins, maintaining a surprisingly clean and innocent facade.

In both cases, this is a very possessive placement and takes no BS, once it smells betrayal or a subtle hurtful comment, it will never forget and hell will break loose. But at the same time, its very sexual and alluring with great magnetic charm. Many dark artists and religious fanatics have this placement! May also have a twisted and even kinky taste, often with a preference to things that are taboo.

This position of Venus is difficult at best. It is perhaps least hazardous when it accompanies a Scorpio or Eighth House Sun, although there are also difficulties with this position.

If the Sun is also in Scorpio you have more self direction and control with this position of Venus. You are also dependent on a strong measure of self-control. It is up to you to set your own standards, for better or for worse. Partnerships become more difficult.

If your Sun is in one of the other possible signs (Virgo, the Sixth House; Libra, the Seventh House; Sagittarius, the Ninth House; Capricorn, the Tenth House) you will find it extremely difficult to control and express your desires, passions and affections in a way that brings you satisfaction and respect. Libra is particularly vulnerable with its ruler in Scorpio. Scorpio is the sign of transformation. Venus’ attractive power is oriented toward possession, hanging on to and owning what you possess, even people.

This is the irresistible force meeting the immovable object. Something has to give. Life itself depends on meeting this challenge. Venus holds it’s greatest sway over the opposite sign Taurus. In Scorpio, it must bend adapt and adjust it’s nature to transcend the methods which have brought it this far. There must be a purpose to the accumulation of wealth and power. This is the real test of value. A selfish purpose means death to the individual. Proper distribution is the challenge. Here it becomes a life and death matter to know where to let go to proper advantage. Some people will do this very well. Others will destroy not only others but themselves rather than live and let live.

Venus in Scorpio is probably the most emotionally intense and passionate sign of the Zodiac. It is also the most mysterious and its power is most obvious in the night time. In love, Venus in Scorpio like to have long term relationships and have difficulty coping with breakups because they get so deeply involved. Those born with their Venus in Scorpio will be intensely romantic, direct and determined. Their strong feelings can sometimes cross the line into jealousy and possessiveness. They are sexually magnetic in a very physical way. Their intensity and passion combine with dedication and dominance to create a person who requires their partner to put it all on the line as they will. If they turn their attention towards a potential mate, all of their physical, mental and emotional energies will be placed behind that task.

Venus in Scorpio loves mystery and knows that there's a purpose for his strong sexual magnetism. Venus in Scorpio need to feel empowered can manifest in manipulation and controlling behaviour and his hearty sexual appetite can degenerate into promiscuity and sex addiction. This people needs a mate who appreciates and encourages his passion and intensity. The best insurance against the shadow side is a Venus-in-Scorpio who is secure and proud of his special gifts: magnetism, mystical sense of magic, ability to feel deeply and his acute sensitivity to others. Very sexually-oriented, Venus in Scorpio needs a partner who is as passionate about life -- and all its mysteries -- as he is! Famous Celebrity with Venus in Scorpio: Leonardo DiCaprio, Steven Spielberg, Bill Gates, Demi Moore, Jean-Claude Van Damme, Jodie Foster and Christopher Reeve.

How to Love Venus in Scorpio?

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Pleasing Venus in Scorpio involves demonstrating your complete commitment and loyalty to them. Those with their Venus in Scorpio need a partner that can be partially submissive while standing their ground against further attempts to dominate them. If you can, and they're deserving, relinquish some of the control in the relationship. Let them feel they own you, without taking it to extremes. Remember, though, that some Venus in Scorpio lovers can and will take advantage of you on a subtle level, if only to keep you all to themselves. Let them have their secrets and their silences. It can be a tricky tightrope to walk but can be worth it. Everything the Scorpio does is rooted in deep, almost instinctual emotions that they may be able to mask but they can't subdue. If a partner is able to keep the dark aspects of this personality at bay, the lighter ones will make them feel like the most important person in the universe.

Female: No-one takes love and relationships more seriously than Venus in Scorpio woman do. She is seeking nothing less than complete merger with a partner - body, mind and spirit. Women with Venus in Scorpio project a powerful sensuality and magnetism that can be both enticing and intimidating. There is something mysterious about she that makes her irresistible to many men, even if she is not especially pretty. Extremely emotional, she realize how strong her feelings are and how deeply she can be hurt if a love affair doesn't work out; therefore, she is sceptical and cautious about getting involved. Once she commit herself in love, however, she do so totally and permanently.

Male: Venus in Scorpio man has a capacity to love deeply, though his intense feelings may be difficult to express. At times, his love can lead him into painful emotional crises. With Venus in Scorpio, there will be a tendency to go to extremes in love relationships. In many ways, he thrive on crisis, as he need the intensity it brings. What he cannot stand is bland nothingness. Men with this planetary position are most interested in women who are dark, intense, mysterious and obviously sexual, the kind you wouldn't think of taking home to meet your mother. Love is always sexual for him, and he can take his partners to some deep and dark places in their search for the depth of union he crave.

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Venus in Sagittarius

Sagittarius in Love

Venus in Sagittarius:

Venus in Sagittarius loves lighthearted, casual romance, just like its Gemini counterpart. Great curiosity and love for other cultures, and may very well have an eye for exotic partners from other countries. Influential women in your environment are foreigners and romance is always linked with getaways and travel, one may lead to another.

The cool thing about this placement is that its very upfront and honest about what it wants, so there’s not much ambiguity in a relationship. But the problem is that long distance relationships and their difficulties are very likely here, and there is also the shadow of making someone fall for you then you leave them for another adventure in another place. Please don’t do that! Funny thing is, you can be the one who falls for people on the move.

This position increases prodigality and a strong desire for freedom to do your own thing. There is likely to be much sex appeal and attractiveness generally, with little or no willingness to be restricted or confined. It increases the luck factor particularly in the accumulation of money and liquid assets. Almost everything comes a little too easy.

The position of the Sun is very important here also.

If the Sun is in either Eighth House Scorpio or Ninth House Capricorn, there is much more stability and an ability to use charm for practical purposes without becoming deeply emotionally involved.
If the Sun is in either Seventh House Libra, Ninth House Sagittarius or Eleventh House Aquarius, the flirtatious, light hearted, easy going, devil may care, freedom loving qualities are most obvious.
Conjunct your Sagittarius Sun you love your own company best and are spoiled by the attentions of others. In any case, this is a bird on the wing which dies in captivity. Your affections are caught up by intangible far-out concepts which must be fed a steady diet without the often expected result of loyalty, devotion and commitment. With this position you are in love with life and personal freedom. Only those who share these interests can hope to keep you company along the way without uncomfortable restrictions.

Venus in Sagittarius idealizes love, making it more of the mind than of the senses. Such devotion may not have great depths of passion but it sparkles like a star in the distant heavens, as though to say, ‘Fix your gaze on me and I will bring you all you desire’. Venus in Sagittarius can be quite flirtatious and seem to have a playboy-playgirl quality about them, and are usually quite idealistic in love. Those with Venus in Sagittarius are drawn to foreigners and those who are philosophical and travel a lot. Venus in Sagittarius falls in and out of love quite fast. Venus in Sagittarius has an adventurous heart in love, seeking to explore the unknown and learn about new customs, cultures and behaviours. Their ideas and beliefs are extremely important to them. If a relationship is going to even stand a slight chance of lasting, they will need a partner that shares their views on the issues of the world- or at least someone that is willing to convert to those beliefs.

If they shares a similar belief system or religion with their partner, this helps them to stay committed, giving them union meaning and a sense of purpose. Independent, it is hard for them to be tied to a relationship that might hamper their freedom. If they are to be in a relationship, it has to start slow and build up over time. Even then, there’s a chance this person will be uncomfortable once the turn has been made into more serious territory. They may grow nervous and turn an eye towards the door once they begin to feel restricted. Even if they seem happy, they may be drawing up exit strategies in the back of their mind. Celebrities with Venus in Sagittarius: Jane Fonda, Whoopi Goldberg, Tina Turner, Christina Aguilera, David Bowie, Kevin Costner. John Malkovich, Gerard Depardieu, Kim Basinger...

How to Love Venus in Sagittarius?

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Pleasing Venus in Sagittarius involves allowing them lots of room in the relationship to grow. Avoid getting stuck in a rut, and understand their need to move on. Learn to laugh, but take their rants and raves seriously. Avoid criticizing their beliefs, join them in debates, and philosophize along with them. When they feel the need for more experience, join them! Learn to look past their clumsiness with you and your feelings, and avoid cornering them or forcing them to commit. Play, travel, soaking up the nightlife, discussing world cultures -- these things bond you to a partner-in-adventure.

Female: Women with Venus in Sagittarius pride themselves on their sense of humor, gregariousness and cheerful dispositions. It is important to her to be well-liked and to have lots of friends and admirers. The more popular she is, the better she feel about herself as a woman. Her social calendar is often full because she is kind of a collector of friends and lovers. She is not into emotional drama, and will hightail it out of a heavy or over-analyzed relationship. It may take awhile before she commit to one person, and her experimental side means she will be curious about all things sexual. She will play the field a long time, as part of her overall quest for experience.

Male: Men with this planetary position are most attracted to active, vivacious, friendly and fun-loving women. No intense, possessive or highly emotional types need apply. He want a partner who's more of a buddy than a lover; someone with whom he can do things and share ideas and experiences. He admire knowledge and worldliness, and is fascinated by women who have done things and who know things that he does nor. Tall, slim, athletic women with long legs probably appeal to him most.

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Venus in Aquarius

Aquarius in Love

Venus in Aquarius:

Friendship is the most important relationship to these people and they may put it even before marriage, so your best bet is to befriend them before thinking of a relationship. And no restrains, please! This placement loves freedom and personal space. Whoever invented open relationships probably had Venus in Aquarius!

You have a unique taste in partners, usually in preference of the intellectual type. May attract very different, strange and unique people into your life. Women in your life tend to be androgynous, independent and kind of on the feminist side, blurring out gender boundaries, and also very intelligent.

This position grants a wealth of material abundance and ability with a need for someone to share and develop it with. These people tend to pile up both good ideas and material abundance but can’t be bothered attaching themselves to people who literally contaminate their freedom and genius ability. You prefer to, more or less, live in the wild, for fear you will be restricted from pursuing some flight of fancy by having to include someone else in your plans.

Most of the time, you fail to realize the benefits from relationships. In most cases, it is extremely difficult, if not impossible, to find someone who fits comfortably into your free wheeling routine. You really need a buddy not a sweetheart. Any romance will have to include a sharing of ideas and a curiosity compatible with your own. Platonic relationships are the only kind you will keep for any length of time. Even in this case, it must be unfettered.

With the right kind of relationship your real genius can be put to good use. In most cases, this doesn’t happen, largely due to cultural demands of responsibility. You must be able to write your own ticket with self-imposed discipline of a truly responsible nature in order to be successful.

Venus in Aquarius people try to impress you with their open-minded, future-thinking spirit. They can be unconventional both in their approach to love and also to who they are drawn to. They want you to see them as unique, rebellious, and a little provocative. They want you to acknowledge and appreciate that they don’t follow the beaten track in matters of the heart. Platonic relationships, creative relationships, group activities are great manifestations of this position of Venus. Emotional dramas, jealousy, exclusivity, are not in the make up of this sign. Friendship comes first. Falling in love with the eccentric, with the freaky, with the one that everyone else dislikes is characteristic of Venus in Aquarius.

The Venus in Aquarius individual has a love of freedom. He or she is often reluctant to make a commitment, however, expect complete loyalty once this person takes the plunge. The Venus in Aquarius person is attracted to idealists or rebels who stand out from the crowd. In love and relationship, the Aquarian energy cannot be denied its independence and prefers a counterpart who is also independent, forward-thinking and a little quirky. Intellectual stimulation is a must if you're to snag and hold on to a Venus in Aquarius. Venus in Aquarius wants you to love them for their intellect, and to admire their visions. Celebrities with Venus in Aquarius: Sharon Stone, Bruce Willis, Paris Hilton, Mel Gibson, Nicloas Cage...

How to Love Venus in Aquarius?

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Pleasing Venus in Aquarius involves letting them know just how interesting they are. Put up with their occasional need to act superior on an intellectual level -- they are very proud of their unique ideas and visions. Dream along with them, and don't fence them in. They need space and will happily return the favor, giving you lots of room to breathe and to be yourself. They like to choose their terms when involved in a relationship, and this can be challenging for a partner, as their terms can be changeable. With the exception of this quality, Venus in Aquarius people are some of the most unselfish people in love. They allow you freedom to be yourself, and are rarely clinging or controlling.

Female: A woman who keeps the Venus in Aquarius male guessing or is somewhat unconventional is particularly fascinating, while a woman who is too emotional or complicated is a complete turn off for him. She is looking for someone unique and reliable. She loves her freedom even more than Sagittarius. She can cultivate a friend into a lover; find one in the chat room or at a distance. She is looking for a lover who is also a friend, someone with whom you can share ideas and experiences. Women with Venus in Aquarius value their individuality highly, and have no intentions of letting a man tell them what to do. She consider herself everyone's equal, and is probably a supporter of women's rights. As far as she is concerned, a woman's place is anywhere but the home.

Male: Men with this planetary position find intelligent, free-spirited, unorthodox women most attractive. He is looking for someone who is different, unpredictable and eccentric, and who stands out in a crowd. Men who have Venus in Aquarius prefer women who are intelligent, independent and free-spirited. He needs a woman who is a good conversationalist and may become bored with a woman who never has anything to say. He insist on having lots of space and independence in his relationships, and can't bear possessiveness or jealousy. An open-ended arrangement that allows him to experiment freely would be more satisfactory than a conventional, monogamous partnership. He is easily bored and need plenty of excitement, stimulation and change in his love life.

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Venus in Capricorn

Capricorn in Love

Shy and reserved, but is romantic in its own little old school way. This placement is particularly nice for men as it makes them very marriage oriented, or at the very least in preference of serious relationships that LEAD to marriage. Very protective and loving, and a firm believer in practical romance, doing little gestures that show great respect. Very likely to “father” your partner if you are male, or attract fatherly figure lovers as a female.

May work too hard in good intentions to provide, so you need to remind yourself to take a break. You also may take love too seriously like a duty and forget to enjoy it. Very loyal as they will feel too guilty to cheat! If they do, it will be a last resort with alot of remorse. The women in your life are very hardworking and dead serious, motivating their men and children, as well as themselves, to work as hard as they can.

You are attracted strongly by the good (artistic, cultural, musical etc.) things in life. Yet you are reserved, cool, suspicious and imprisoned by doubts and fear of the unreliability of finesse and subtlety. Your need and desire for a full expression of love and affection is caught and restrained by an awareness of the need also for security and wisdom.

Venus here is proper, well structured to follow the letter of the law and protocol. Usually, there is a large discrepancy in age with a marriage partner. You do not blindly fall in love. You consider what is happening. You only truly love what you also respect. Marriage usually comes late in life and then only to someone you have checked out to be worthy of your trust. Once you have committed yourself you will follow every path necessary to maintain loyalty and devotion.

This position of Venus may dust off most of the glamour but it also keeps you from some of the painful morning afters also. It is possible in some cases that this position will be much less severe and perhaps provide only a very protective balance to something else in your chart. Be that as it may, this position can save you much pain. If you can deal consciously with this influence, like everything else it can be as helpful as you make it. The degree Venus is on may also give you clues as how best to use this influence.

Venus in Capricorn people are attracted to serious, goal-oriented lovers. They are cautious when it comes to love, yet have a hidden passionate side that is only revealed once he or she feels secure. More than anything, the Venus in Capricorn person wants stability and commitment. This person attracts the object of his or her desire by appearing mature and in control. Venus in Capricorn people will try to win your heart by displaying self-control, presence of mind, and responsible behavior. These lovers want you to know they are goal-oriented, witty, savvy, and controlled. They like some measure of predictability in their relationships as they are cautious in love.

If you like knowing where your relationship is headed, you'll be mighty pleased with Venus in Capricorn. Love is a serious business for Venus in any of the Earth signs; but for Venus in Capricorn it is deadly serious. These people will be extremely cautious about getting involved. They will take a long time getting to know a prospective partner and checking out his or her credentials. Unless the prognosis for the relationship is good, they would rather not embark. Ever-practical and achievement-orientated, they do not want to waste their time on something that is not going somewhere. Celebrities with Venus in Capricorn: Brad Pitt, Jim Carrey, Britney Spears, Ben Stiller, Justin Timberlake, Mel Gibson and Elvis Presley.

How to Love Venus in Capricorn?

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Pleasing Venus in Capricorn involves showing them you are practical and realistic. They want to impress you with the things they do. Be organized, practical, cautious, and dutiful. Prefer to work rather than play with them. Set Your goals for your career and for the future and speak with them about that. Take care of family and business, and be in charge of every situation. Make sure whatever you do is the right thing to do. Conform to set rules, touch all the bases, and follow the rules.

Female: Venus in Capricorn woman is traditional and appreciates societal values. She is ardent and sensual—but not in public, mind you. With age and practice, she only gets better. She is image-conscious and values her privacy. She is often your classic beauty, with legs that go on forever. Even in terms of looks, she seems to grow younger and more gorgeous with each passing year. Her ageless quality captures our attention. She does not see it herself—to her it is the make-up, the outfit, the perfect light, or your impaired vision. She works, supports, encourages, and makes you feel that you can conquer the world. She may capture the attention of an older man, who from there on out believes he has gone to heaven. She is also pragmatic and materialistic—there are things a gal needs to have. Her love ally is someone with experience and a clear grip on reality, and this someone is a responsible adult. A partner with self-direction, who demonstrates sparkling clarity and maturity, who is equally self-sufficient and reliable as she, sets the space for a lifelong bond.

Male: The Venus in Capricorn male is attracted to women who are successful and mature. He wants a woman who is somewhat formal or aloof and as concerned about status as he is. He is attracted to strong, “executive” type females and his mate must be competent and responsible. The Venus in Capricorn male hates to play games and expects the object of his affection to take the relationship as seriously as he does. In relationships, he is cautious, practical and traditional. He seek stability and permanence in both romantic and business partnerships. When it comes to matters of the heart, he is a realist, a pragmatist. . Your ideal woman looks as if she just stepped out of Town and Country magazine. Her public image is proper and dignified, but in private she's sensual and passionate. He also might be attracted to women who are older than him.

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