When it comes to Scorpio seduction, you have to remember that Scorpio can be a hard zodiac sign to understand. There's an erotic sexual aggressor and instigator inside every Scorpio man and Scorpio woman. Sexuality for a Scorpio is something to promote their power. Scorpios like power. Sure, Scorpio's like warm cuddles, soft kisses and affection, however, you mustn't ever doubt that you have the goods to get the goods. In other words, don't be timid when it comes to implementing these Scorpio seduction tactics. It's normal for Scorpio to go from coy to aggressive in seconds. If you can excite a Scorpio you can take them from hesitation and indifference to erotic arousal quickly.
Let's go back to the "power of sex" thing I mentioned earlier. There are two different power plays you have to look for in Scorpio.
The first comes within two slightly different circumstances:
Some Scorpio's want to be sure that they've got you just where they want you sexually so, they withhold sex to gain power over you.
Some Scorpio's might even give you a list of "I don't do this or that" to keep you in line.
Let Scorpio go ahead and play that game; remember what they say and later at another time, repeat it back to them as your own "rules" verbatim. Except this time switch the "I don't" to "You can't".
The other power play situation, is Scorpio thinking the reason you want to get into their pants is that you want power over them. Because of this thinking, Scorpio is capable of holding out on you sexually no matter how horny you make them. These sexual plays gives Scorpio a rush. Scorpio's may also withhold sex from you because they want it to be a dramatic, all consuming, can't live with out them, obsessive lust. "Regular" lust isn't sufficient.
The second of the Scorpio sex power plays is:
A Scorpio who is undergoing a self-inflicted time of sexual abstinence. In fact Scorpios can do this for years . Scorpio’s are mentally strong; they can use this self-control to help in remaining off sex for as long as they want to. Want to know how strong willed a Scorpio can be?
Gandhi-- (had 3 planets plus rising in Scorpio). Gandhi gave up sexual activity and slept next to virgins.
Many Scorpio’s experience guilt feelings about sex, so they’ll do that "abstaining thing" which then makes them feel more spiritual and virtuous. If you come across a "I am not having sex" mode Scorpio, don't panic. Scorpios can make a quick 180 from professing to being a "Sainted virgin" or "Monk" to a slut or stud or Pious to a pervert.
... look as scrumptious as possible whenever you're in your Scorpio's presence. They will appreciate natural sex appeal -- or what appears to be natural.
... be ready and willing to talk in great detail about your fantasies and your dirty little secrets.
... share all: Your Scorpio will want to know all your hidden desires and will probably want to fulfill them.
... invest in some satin sheets and scented candles. Your Scorpio will provide the seduction music and the massage.
... become comfortable with the feeling that you're being devoured head to toe by the intense Scorpionic gaze. When your Scorpio stares into your eyes, they won't have to say a word for you to know what's on their mind.
... let go: You will enter into a deeper, more intense relationship than you might have imagined possible. Your Scorpio will be the most passionate, magnetic all-consuming partner you have ever known.
... accuse a Scorpio of being faithless or toying with your emotions. They will take it as a serious insult. Scorpio is one of the most faithful and devoted Signs.
... even think about arousing a Scorpio's jealousy, either intentionally or thoughtlessly. Your Scorpio could lash out violently, becoming angry or overly possessive.
... tease a Scorpio about their performance in bed. Scorpions are renowned for their sexual prowess, and they usually are quite proud of their reputation.
... forget launching your own emotional fireworks or dramatic displays without considering the consequences. Your Scorpio may counteract with an intensity that you're not willing or able to match.
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