One of the drawbacks of a Gemini is that they are unable to take decisions on their own. This indecisiveness is a peculiarity commonly found in both males as well as females. Although they are very intelligent people, yet due to the duality in their nature, they are unable to decide on one particular thing.
Geminis are very curious people who like to explore new places and meet new people. They like to do all such things which add to their experience and knowledge. They are intelligent, witty and bright, and can be great company for someone looking for a mental stimulation.
Adept at Multitasking
Gemini Love Traits
Geminis make excellent partners for somebody who is looking for fun, excitement and adventure in life. They want someone who will understand their need to socialize, and at the same time, be there for them when they come back home. They like to have intelligent conversations with other people including their partners. A well experienced, intelligent person, with a strong personality, who can match wits with a Gemini, will be their ideal partner. Their ideal partners in the Zodiac are Aquarius, Libras and fellow Geminis themselves.
Geminis, being indecisive and dual in their nature, are quite capable of cheating, once in a while. Since they crave for variety, adventure and excitement, they have an instinct to stray sometimes. So the partners of Geminis should always look for ways to hold their interest. They should not be boring or laid back, otherwise they can soon lose interest, pack his bags and go. Looking at the characteristics, it can be concluded that Gemini people are highly energetic, lively, witty, versatile, intellectual and communicative. On the flip side, they can be indecisive, impulsive, flirtatious and superficial. Though there is lack of depth in their personality and emotions, still Geminis are excellent to be around, for their optimistic and fun-loving outlook towards life.
She can make you feel like she needs all your care, but once she needs to stand alone, she can stand alone firmly and comfortably. She can be your best buddy and talk to you about anything. She can join all your activities with the same energy that you have. She is a quick a wit person and learn new things very fast. She can see your projects and she can give you good advice. If she thinks you are not sure that you want her for yourself, she will act like your best friend only, a cool woman.
She can easily make a guy fall in love with her. Her multiple changes and many moods is a “Charm” for many men. She can be laughing for 2 minutes and later suddenly quiet. She wants to find only 1 true love and she wants to meet her dream guy. She expects a lot and nearly too much. She is constantly waiting for her knight shinning armor even she is with a steady boyfriend. She can fall in love or fond of someone else while she is with you.
If you break up with her, she will forget you quite fast, because change is in her nature. The Gemini woman breaks more heart than woman in other Zodiac. Because she is a dreamer and always waiting for her knight shinning armor, so her love life can be complex or a mess. She hates to write a long letter, so if you write her a letter and expect a prompt reply, forget it.
Because she has a multiple personality and multiple ideas, so she hates to put them down in written proof. Because she knows what she belief today can be different tomorrow. She could communication with more than 1 language, a real gifted linguistic. If she wants to tell you any bad comments, she won’t say it straight away, but she will talk to you about many other things and accidentally come to that subject without offending you.
Normally she will not lie. She will work hard and once a while take a long rest. She can get bored and tired with her own surrounding more than at work. She never feels content with her present work, money, or reputations; she will drive to have more. Don’t ask her what is her ultimate contentment for she will not have an answer. Once you get to know her, she will be a supportive person and always be beside you. She has a beautiful dream and she loves to have someone walk side by side with her, together and equally.
Love can liberate the Gemini woman from all her inhibitions, but her friendliness can attract problems.
Born between May 21st and June 21st the Gemini woman is lively and intelligent; she enjoys an element of surprise in her relationships and that's why life is rarely dull for her friends and her romantic partner. She needs time to dream and drift, to enjoy social outings and explore the magic of romance with her man without getting too serious too quickly.
The female Gemini is looking for a man who is open and communicative and who will delight in doing fun things with her without making her feel childish. Friendly and talkative, she will happily reveal what is on her mind and this leaves her open for the more practical or dominant partner to mock her for being immature and thereby possibly stifling her light-hearted and playful side.
Here's a quick look at the Gemini woman's relationship with the other zodiac signs to give an idea of which offer the best romantic prospects for her:
Aries ~ March 21 - April 19
The Gemini woman's ideal male is someone who shares her sense of fun, who enjoys exchanging ideas and hopes and who will happily indulge in the occasional spur-of-the-moment whim. Gemini is curious about life, the world, people and anything that attracts her attention at that particular moment. Aries is spontaneous, loves adventure and would never try to tie the Gemini down.
Taurus ~ April 20 - May 20
As someone who likes routine, security and planning for the long-term, the Taurus is the kind of man Gemini should avoid! It might seem as if they share similar dreams at the start of the relationship but Gemini wants to have fun, be young and enjoy life before she settles down. Taurus is tender, warm and loving but in her heart, the Gemini will know he isn't the man for her.
Gemini ~ May 21 - June 21
Gemini needs to feel she can be herself with her partner and when with another Gemini, communication is one of the many areas that will make for a perfect fit. They might spend hours talking, sharing ideas and encouraging each other in their joint aims. They're likely to lead an active social life and will share many fun experiences together.
Cancer ~ June 22 - July 22
Sensitive, sentimental and passionate, Cancer will offer Gemini romance galore but in the long-term they will find they have different expectations when it comes to lasting love.
Leo ~ July 23 - August 22
This would be a partnership based on mutual enjoyment; both are fun-loving, sociable and friendly. Leo will be the more practical and sensible one in this union and he will inspire her with his affability and creativity. Where problems could occur is when Gemini gets all the attention and Leo becomes jealous. He will be passionate but maybe a little too demanding in the bedroom for the Gemini when Leo won't always have time to indulge in the pillow-talk Gemini so enjoys!
Virgo ~ August 23 - September 22
Although both Virgo and Gemini are ruled by the same planet, Mercury, Virgo won't always have a lot of patience for Gemini when she is at her most frivolous. This serious man cannot be swayed once he has something serious on his mind and the Gemini might find him too critical, too grave and too subdued for her lively nature.
Libra ~ September 23 - October 22
Some men genuinely touch the Gemini's heart and the Libran will be one of them. Both Gemini and Libra are Air signs and this can be an important consideration when thinking about psychic compatibility. The Gemini's type of man should be romantic, laid-back, cool, friendly, interesting and interested in her. Someone just like a Libran!
Scorpio ~ October 23 - November 21
Scorpio is serious, often complicated and rarely spontaneous. The Gemini and Scorpio might anticipate sharing stimulating conversations on subjects of interest to them both but when it comes to love and romance Gemini needs less secrecy and more openness to feel truly happy.
Sagittarius ~ November 22 - December 21
With the Sagittarius Gemini can enjoy plenty talk, plenty action and a lot of fun. He is happy-go-lucky and won't ever try to curb the playful and impulsive side of her nature. Sagittarius is the Gemini's zodiac opposite; there will be an instant chemistry between the two and a romantic spark that will make her feel as if she has found her soul-mate.
Capricorn ~ December 22 - January 19
Stability and routine are some of the essential components a Capricorn is looking for in a relationship and it is unlikely Gemini can (or will want to) offer either!
Aquarius ~ January 20 - February 18
Aquarius could well be the man of her dreams and the Gemini woman will instinctively know she has found someone she won't ever want to let go, the moment they get together. Aquarius is as spontaneous as the Gemini and will know how to spring surprises on her that will give her a much needed boost whenever she is feeling low.
Pisces ~ February 19 - March 20
Gemini needs friendliness and romance and Pisces will seem to offer both but is he the one?
The Gemini is a woman who is completely open about her thoughts and feelings and who will readily reveal her deepest worries and highest hopes. Finding a partner who understands her and who will help her develop her true potential rather than curb her high spirits is essential if she is to find true happiness in romance.
Once you've proposed to her and she's accepted, you can pity all those men who are doomed to a life of monogamy with just one woman. You'll have several wives when you marry your Gemini.
Wife Number One will be able to adjust to anything you require of her. If you require faithfulness, she can manage that, too, providing you're interesting enough to have won her real love. I refer to that blending of mental, spiritual and physical compatibility, with the physical part added last, like the paprika, after the other three are well mixed. This wife will never sulk if you take a new job out of town. With her ingenuity, taste and sense of color, she can make a new home look lovely with a light touch of her dainty, clever hand. Besides, she'll love the adventure, and there will be no nagging reproaches that you're gambling with future security. The excitement of new horizons interests her more. She may have a surprisingly good head for business and she'll back all your original ideas. You can count on her to go to work if you need extra income, and she'll be pretty practical about how to spend it. Although she may give an outward impression of flightiness, she's not as nighty as she appears. She's a thinker, and a very clever one, underneath all the bright small talk.
Wife Number Two will be moody. You might just as well expect it. She'll have her satirical moments when she can be cynical and flippant, by turns. At the same time, she'll challenge you mentally. But a man needs to be stimulated, doesn't he? Go ahead, top her in an intellectual argument. (It's what she secretly wants anyway.) This wife won't be easily shocked by life or have any preconceived prejudices. She may decide to march in a protest parade or join a sit-in and forget to come home until midnight. What if you do have to join the fellows while she's out making a speech or going to night school to pick up a few extra credits? At least she probably won't hound you with • suspicious questions about who you were with, where you were, and what you were doing. Don't question her, either. You're on the honor system. So is she. This one is a highly independent individualist.
Wife Number Three will be bored and depressed with housekeeping routines. The beds will be unmade and the dishes will stand in the sink while she daydreams, reads or writes the outline for a play. She may serve you a can of beans for 'dinner without even bothering to open the can. But you can have the most soul-satisfying conversations with her into the wee, small hours. She'll sympathize with your frustrations at the way life has treated you. She'll satisfy both your emotional and your intellectual cravings, be curious about your opinion of Buddhism and excited about your attempts to write a song. In short, she's pretty good company. She'll be very affectionate, too, since you haven't bugged her about dusting and baking and all that nonsense. This wife may make a mess of the checkbook now and then. But if you suggest a sudden camping trip or a few days in Las Vegas, she'll enthusiastically pack her suitcase without a bunch of silly objections, like how it's going to affect the budget or who will feed the Siamese cat and what if the bathtub leaks while you're gone.
Wife Number Four will be a gay and laughing mother. She won't let the children restrict her, because she'll probably have too many projects going constantly to smother them with over-protectiveness. They'll imitate her independence and benefit by it. If anyone asks her how much time she spends with them, she'll probably answer, "In our family, it's not a matter of how much time. It's a matter of how much love." And she'll be right. The children may not always obey her, because she's inclined to be emphatic one day, then melt and give in the next, but the youngsters will love their long talks with her. Her imagination will match theirs, and they'll amuse each other. She'll probably be a permissive mother, but she'll worry about scholastic averages, and she'll probably insist on good grades. They won't get by without doing their homework if she can help it, although they may get by without hanging up their clothes.
Wife Number Five will be a beautiful hostess, an expert at the whole candlelight, flowers and sterling silver routine. You can bring anyone, from your boss to the Governor home to dinner, and she'll be so gracious and charming, they'll never want to leave. Shell organize her life efficiently and effortlessly, dress like a fashion model and love the theater. You can take her to art galleries and concerts- she'll be right at home in any kind of society. Everyone will stare at you enviously and wonder who the glamorous woman is who hangs on your arm so sweetly. She'll be romantic and ultra-feminine, maybe even write you a poem for your birthday. You'll want to buy her velvet dressing gowns and expensive perfumes, because her gracious style will make you feel like a country squire. If you mention a trip to Europe, her eyes will sparkle. She's a sophisticate.Well, there you are. I may have missed a few girls in your Gemini harem. Every husband in town will be green with envy when they see you with a different woman every day. If they ask you how you get away with it, play it cool. Polygamy is against the law, you know.
Money and Career
They have an inherent ability to adjust to any set of circumstances, which is good, since their finances tend to fluctuate many times during their lives.
The Gemini woman likes to play with money, unlike her financially steady sister Taurus or somewhat reckless Aries who might gamble all at one go. The more intellectual Gemini girl will tend to play the stock market and are often very entrepreneurial, in that they can be involved in several businesses or investment areas at the same time