The Leader of the Aqua Lady ... we are strong women, we can succeed without men, don't ever put your happiness and love for our self second to other.. even if its love... this lesson is loud and clear-- Love me me me me ... be selfish and you will never cry because of someone else . Love Me .. love me !!!
HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO
SAY ABOUT MEN :
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making e
xcuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to
be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was
not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A
friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel
like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because
you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later
for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control
in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own
set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy
treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know
everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot
change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him
feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more
education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a
man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who
you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll
cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat
you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all
the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal
between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with
your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary...
not supplementary.
Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him
miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're
always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move
into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a
man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your
radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what
makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful:
Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could
ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a
good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that
he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of
choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts... ❤
